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May 24, 2019

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Title	Splash💦
Author	beyond_therapy_
Upvotes	616
Comments	77
Date	May 24, 2019 5:37 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/bsjt0l/splash/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/splash.460181 https://theredarchive.com/post/460181

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Ugh, so true. I was a dirtbag and did better with women than I have ever since. I am talking poor hygiene, shit job, playing in a band. . . I joined The Army and still got laid, but more women came around looking for a meal ticket. Post Army, got a respectable job with a good salary, and its nothing but wall bangers and single moms.

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[–]Sir_manalot5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And how do you think that happened in the first place?

Because her mother was also attracted to a bad boy/deadbeat/criminal/etc that ended u treating the daughter like shit.

The thing with daddy issues and shit is that they are not the root cause. Women are just naturally attracted to dark triad men (there are legit studies on this if you are interested).

To he clear, when fathers had the final say in who there daughter ended up with, we didn't have daddy issues.

It was only after we let women be the sole pickers of who they mate with that single motherhood, deadbeat dads and such became an issue.

Because it doesn't matter how many men try to be good men if a large number of women (it is large) keep exclusively chasing trash.

It is also why good men are disappearing. As why would men try to be good when women ultimately treat good men like shit (they do and I am not talking about nice guys)? Aka if you cannot beat them, join them in practice.

Note: This doesn't excuse dark triad men nor am I deflecting responsibility here. I am just pointing out the root cause here and that it is a problem with personal responsibility we have (it just impacts women more because of men trying to buy sex by removing responsibility/agency from women's lives).

People just want to blame everything on a scapegoat to avoid taking responsibility because taking responsibility is hard (young white men are the current target).

But no matter how much we try to deflect responsibility, the consequences remain the same. And in the end, nothing is both easy and satisfying.

If we keep trying to remove responsibility from women whom make poor choices, they will end up more and more miserable (see the paradox of female happiness to see what I mean).

Just look at the spiking single motherhood rates and the mass mental disorders that women have these days. Despite women having more power then ever before, they are more miserable then any other group of women.

And we, as a society, are punishing and holding trashy men responsibile for there poor choices CES already (prison, child support, shame, etc). Yet the problem keeps getting worse even though we keep doubling down.

Responsibility is important. And until we hold women responsible and accountable for what they do, things will get worse (especially for them).

TLDR: my body, my choice, my responsibility.

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. You don't take care of yourselves and you lack social skills, and you wonder why women don't want you. If you just fix your attitude and basic hygiene, you will be fine.

Wow, apparently this dude thinks he knows all of the 108k people on the subreddit? Fuck off with your shitty assumptions, most people here have social skills enough to get a gf or a wife, but cant find a suitable match because there are only a few, majority of them are thots imma be honest.

Not everyone can have the movie star girls, so stop chasing them.

Thats fine, but most just want a normal girl, also how do you know what we want and dont want? I havent ever met you, neither 108k people probably have. Its even funnier, because we got 3s and 4s chasing 10/10 males but not the other way around, I wonder which gender lacks self-awareness? Majority of the men are having to deal with entitled wahmen who are atleast 1 or 2 below their grade, and most of them are thots, so I legit have no interest in this shitty market.

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This is the issue with people like yourself. Rather than engaging with the issue all you want to do is call people names. And stereotype anyone who doesn’t conform to your agenda as ‘fat, smelly, anti-social’ etc.

I have lived with two women. I have had 7 girlfriends. I am slim and fit. I do not smoke, and take regular exercise. I have a fairly good career I enjoy which comes with financial stability. I have my own apartment and my own vehicle. I have an active social life and many hobbies.

I am not an outlier here at MGTOW. I am usual, normal.

But rather than engage with the issues raised, you simply name-call and abuse. It’s not intelligent nor is it respectable.

What you don’t seem to understand is this. We don’t want women any more. We are sick of them.

You clearly have no understanding of the issue nor do you want to have any understanding. You are simply here to abuse people that have not conformed to your world view.

Personally I am grateful for people like you. That subscription number keeps on going up, and it’s thanks to you 🙂. Thank you very much for your support and assistance in setting men free.

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