there is something much, much deeper going on here...

SoftHarem · 2013-05-30T06:31:26+00:00

Good for you, just make sure you're fine with her fucking other men.

theitalianstallion76 · 2013-05-30T03:54:12+00:00

LOLOLZZOZLOZLZOLZZOZOO

[deleted] · 2013-05-30T06:30:11+00:00

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Ill_mumble_that · 2013-05-30T04:33:09+00:00

OP is a troll. Move along folks.

This was all covered in the last thread.

[deleted] · 2013-05-30T02:55:02+00:00

Well, don't say we didn't warn you =]

RedSunBlue · 2013-05-30T03:27:31+00:00

If you want to hang around reading books and lifting weights as your "girlfriend" enters the Baskin-Robbins of wang, no one here will stop you.

I have been 100% ready to drop the relationship but we have talked and as I have said before, this girl isn't like other hamstering women.

she wants to explore, not because she really "wants" to per se

"NAWALT"

When I read posts like these, all I can think is, "How arrogant."

While evolutionary psychology and philosophy are often brought up here to support the current model of the modern woman, do not be mistaken: this model is built on the experience of men far more knowledgeable in the ways of women than yourself.

These men, through countless interactions with women in various settings and contexts, have developed a model of behavior that is proven true more often than it is not, yet you with your "intimate knowledge" of this one woman assume that your condition is unique. It very well may be, but chances are it is not.

Everyone here is telling you not to touch the hot stove. Maybe your hands are calloused and you'll be fine, but the more likely outcome is that you'll get burned.

Do you think you're more knowledgeable than this entire sub?

"NAWALT!"

Arrogance.

Do you think that by losing some of that belly fat and reading a few books you can develop enough value to curb her hypergamous drive before she finds someone better than you?

"What we have is special! I can fix this! She'll come around!"

Arrogance.

Pride cometh before the fall. Ignore the advice here at your own peril.

be_tru · 2013-05-30T02:13:29+00:00

So are you going to let her go 'explore' or is she just going to be doing it behind your back?

If you're staying do not have unprotected sex with her and spin some more plates because you will drop this one soon enough.

Stayinghereforreal · 2013-05-30T03:55:21+00:00

She indicated her desire to break up with you, in that way women do when they don't want to be the "bad guy", and you still fail to see it.

A truly wise man learns from other people's mistakes. So stare at this one, fellas, because this is textbook stuff right here. Observe the patterns and avoid repeating them in your own life.

Good luck, OP. I would not play things the way you are, but I hope things work out for you.

AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-05-30T02:15:16+00:00

Why should you care what we think? With that said I think you should drop her.

ToTheLogicalExtreme · 2013-05-30T03:14:02+00:00

You've already lost. She's going to dump you when she finds a better man, is that getting through to you? A better man.

t21spectre · 2013-05-30T06:28:18+00:00

Sunk-Cost Fallacy:

"Reasoning that further investment is warranted on the fact that the resources already invested will be lost otherwise, not taking into consideration the overall losses involved in the further investment."

You've invested 5 years of your life into this person, are you just making it work so you don't feel like you wasted all that time?

Also, nobody completely knows another person, especially if the other person intentionally hides traits or characteristics about themselves.

kukul · 2013-05-30T02:20:15+00:00

At first I didn't know what the fuck are you talking about, with that string of frantic excuses and rationalizations, then I saw the other thread.

You make me sick.

Title	there is something much, much deeper going on here...
Author	throwingaway5years
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	May 30, 2013 2:03 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1fb6cv/there_is_something_much_much_deeper_going_on_here/
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