I am lonely.

Xajad · 2017-09-27T09:33:07+00:00

Signup on Meet up and join an outdoors group, join a craft group, join fetlife and attend some kinky parties, volunteer at a retirement home. Just go live OP. You never get back yesterday, go live.

[deleted] · 2017-09-27T10:31:41+00:00

Dont play video games if you're depressed. Join clubs, go out. Martial arts is great.

TaiChiWeeWee · 2017-09-27T10:14:33+00:00

As the views climb and the comments stay the same, I'm beginning to worry there is not a simple solution.

Triadis3 · 2017-09-27T11:52:17+00:00

What do you like to do?

I mean hobbies. Any passions?

Go do those. Join groups of people who go do those things.

Friendship usually includes a shared bond.

I wrote this list of my hobbies for another post. Pick one that appeals to you and go do it. If nothing else, it'll get you off your couch and into the world.

That's the first step.

Car collecting, Hiking, Road Biking, Guitar/drums, Drone flying, Motorcycle collecting, Motocross/enduro, Scuba, Rec. Pilot, Metal fab/welding, Beermaking, Shooting/ gunsmithing, Archery, Snowboarding, Snowshoeing, Hunting, Fishing, Track Days, Glamping, Navigational Rally racing, Surfing, 3 gun, SUP, Rock Climbing, Music Festivals, Tattooing, Road Trips, Wearing womens' clothes, Primitive wilderness camping, Drag racing, Jetski, Home bartending/whiskey club, Backcountry snowmobiling, Mountainclimbing, Mountainbiking, Downhill mountainbiking, Home mechanic, Woodworking, Millwright/machining, Painting, BDSM, Dog training, Riding Quads (fourwheelers, not paralyzed people), Sub training, Riding horses, Riding women, Ride on lawnmower, Being a dick on the internet.

0signal0 · 2017-09-27T12:19:23+00:00

Something I've noticed about you Americans is that you're quick to call everybody you hang out with "friends". Real friendship, the kind of people who don't stab you in the back or sleep with your girlfriend, take time to find and develop. It's somehow a test of your patience and maturity.

There is also a difference between being alone and being lonely. Men are meant to thrive in solitude.

dronesectorscout · 2017-09-27T11:44:04+00:00

I found joining an outdoor group led me to meet a group of like minded and intelligent people. It was a total game changer. It's not the "simple solution" though as it requires turning up to events consistently, making long journeys, and of course intra-group politics and friction. Nonetheless, if I could go back 2 years and tell myself one thing that would help massively, it would be to join those clubs.

CrushTheSkull · 2017-09-27T09:51:28+00:00

I've made lots of good friends through the gym and in college parties.

bobfrompinecreek · 2017-09-27T12:01:36+00:00

lots of my friends i met at work

AyeAmScottishYaCunt · 2017-09-27T12:15:03+00:00

Go to the right sub and post your question

Prophets_Prey · 2017-09-27T13:11:33+00:00

It never gets easier, you just get stronger.

pigeoncalledjeff · 2017-09-27T13:37:15+00:00

Maybe stop thinking it has to be done in a red pill fashion and just be friendly with people without thinking about Alphas betas and assuming red pill applies to every thing. God no wonder so many of you are depressed you're all obsessed with analysing and codifying everything and not actually experiencing things

Title	I am lonely.
Author	TaiChiWeeWee
Upvotes	14
Comments	34
Date	September 27, 2017 9:27 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/72r4xy/i_am_lonely/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/i-am-lonely.46206 https://theredarchive.com/post/46206

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