People say he is an asshole for not wanting to drive to get his drunk wife after she whored in the club. 🤡 🗺

Docbear64 · 2019-05-19T19:49:44+00:00

I agree he IS the asshole his job is to pay for the home they live in , let his wife go out drink , party , and suck all the exciting bathroom bar dick she wants and then he's supposed to come and kiss her cum-stained lips and tell her loves how spontaneous and amazing she is for being a hard working independent slut .

I can't believe men still handcuff themselves to these leeches.

GateKeeper7665 · 2019-05-19T19:52:46+00:00

Did you take her there? no? then it is not your problem to bring her back. Uber has made it so easy these days.

formerlydeaddd · 2019-05-19T21:50:59+00:00

Is she dressing provocatively, painting her face up to mock vitality and sexuality? is she going to popular night clubs where most people go to meet and enjoy the mating game, while consuming things specifically designed to reduce inhibition? & without her partner?

2019-05-19T19:39:17+00:00

Damn what a bunch of white knights, we strive for equality right? If she decides to go on an adventure she should be able to do things on her own without bothering people far away. If the roles were reversed and OP was a woman, everything would be like NTA, he is a man and should be able to take care of himself.

oldman_stone · 2019-05-19T19:57:40+00:00

his wife is cheating.

Invduck77 · 2019-05-19T21:52:46+00:00

He is the asshole but she will respect him for it. Why he is still married to a bar whore is probably a more important question.

Buchwild · 2019-05-19T20:27:51+00:00

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PaigeRox · 2019-05-19T19:38:59+00:00

Did she "whore" just because she went to the club? Lol

2019-05-19T20:12:04+00:00

He's probably in a cheaper-to-keep-her kind of mental state and knows it.

OptimalAdhesiveness · 2019-05-19T22:46:16+00:00

Dude did the right thing. It's clearly implied that she's done this before and will continue to do it again. The shrieking harpies going off about how 'it says she goes clubbing a lot, not that she gets drunk and stuck!! REEEE!!!' need to shut the fuck up. It's obvious what the dude meant but he was trying to keep the post brief and to the point.

Dealing with overly drunk people is the most fucking annoying thing in the world when you're sober and trying to get them to go home. They want to stop and talk to everyone, grab food, yell out the window, ask the same question 156 times, etc.

I like how people also invoked the safety aspect, as if not lining up a ride before you go out is safe and she just got stuck by accident. If she's not worried about safety, why would I be...

JBurger58 · 2019-05-19T23:23:34+00:00

I wanted to tell him to go his own way, but baby steps for now.

My reply to his query:

There are consequences for every action.

I'm not sure how old you are, but I assume you two are about the same age. That being said, your action is that you decided to get married far too young. The consequence of which is that you have to put up with each others immature and repulsive behaviour while you are still married. You can't expect any 21 year old to act responsibly, especially when alcohol is involved. You need to take accountability for that.
Her action was to go clubbing, drink, and not ensure that she had a backup plan - I assume she didn't give you forewarning that she may need you if things went sideways. The consequence of placing herself in a dangerous situation without a backup plan means that she unilaterally placed herself in said situation. She is accountable for getting herself out of said situation and is not in a position to reprimand you. Instead, she should have apologised for her behaviour. Relying on her partner to save her is tantamount to abuse and shows an incredible lack of respect for you...she clearly does not value your times, needs or desires. Not only are you justified in refusing to be misused and abused, but I'd suggest ending the marriage.

Ask yourself seriously if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who does not value you. No "talk in the morning" is going to change that. You can't request that she values you. Respect yourself and your value enough to move on and find someone else who will value you. Your happiness comes first. Take some time off after the divorce to work on yourself and discover your self worth. Only then will you find the right partner.

Keep strong brother.

For those that disagree with me...enjoy your unhappy relationships that will lead you to resent and loathe your partner. Just don't give advice to a young man asking him to join you in your misery.

FonzieBarbarino · 2019-05-19T23:11:40+00:00

Better title:

Am I the cuckold because I still haven't divorced my wife who goes clubbing, gets drunk and stays out all night smashing Chad and Tyrone?

Mundane_Batrachian · 2019-05-20T01:37:07+00:00

If he told her he wouldn't beforehand, it's on her.

006rbc · 2019-05-20T04:19:07+00:00

I'd say NTA if this happens frequently. At some point enough is enough and you should be able to control yourself to not get shit faced.

shitfren · 2019-05-20T11:20:11+00:00

And that is wrong with society. Its her decision to get drunk. He isn't her babysitter. Sure he could have picked her up. But he wasn't obligated to do so. And of course he is the asshole and she is the victim. Sure thing. Woman need to take responsibility for there actions if they are so independent. And the advise to just sleep at a friends house if they were also there with here isnt that far fetched.

I have now seen so much posts shared from this sub that i just think that they all have next to no self respect. Like other people here said. Modern life makes it so easy. Just order an uber.

That's it. God some people are so blind

2019-05-20T17:01:22+00:00

I get shitfaced on occasion and have never bothered anyone else to handle the situation for me. If she can use her phone to call him then she can get an Uber. Telling people like the average coddled redditor to take some personal responsibility is anathema to them every time. They view anything besides a liberal utopia as unbearable and to be avoided at all costs. You can see how they virtual signal constantly “I would do this or this” to fit the narrative of their echo chamber. They also clearly have no concrete sense of self-respect, made obvious with how so many admit to being depressed or having social anxiety though acting like Simp Superhero in all their imaginations.

Title	People say he is an asshole for not wanting to drive to get his drunk wife after she whored in the club. 🤡 🗺
Author	esteban1337
Upvotes	112
Comments	31
Date	May 19, 2019 7:19 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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