(i was upset about a story i read similar to this situation)

anyhoo,

i noticed that when a married man with children cheats on his wife he finds the LEAST destructive way to do it ie he SECRETLY spends 200 bucks on a hooker and calls it a day, in his mind he KNOWS the kids would be DEVASTATED if they ever found out, meanwhile a woman will find the MOST destructive way to cheat that only satan could think of ie CHEAT,DIVORCE RAPE,ABUSE/TRAUMATIZE, GO ON DRUGS, DATE THE ALPHA-LOSER! THEN have the kid MEET the alpha loser.

the list goes on and on!

-discuss