I’m here thinking , after all the fun we have as young dudes , when tf do women start chasing us ? Majority of the posts on here consists of FR with dudes meeting up , approaching girls or anything that can relate to chasing chicks and fucking them . I can’t remember ever seeing a post where the OP was the dude being chased . Now , I just want to know , is it bad that at some point I should be expected to be chased after ? Let’s say a dude’s chasing period begins at 18 and ends at 24 , depending on how many girls he sleeps with until he gets bored of doing so . For example , I’m 21 and honestly slept w 9 chicks already . No , they weren’t hot but decent for me . However , some experinces were amazing and some sucked . Now , I don’t feel like approaching or even taking the time out of my day to even conquer some pussy because 1. ALMOST EVERY DUDE IS DOING IT . 2 . It just puts the girl on a higher pedestal from her perspective . 3 . Wouldn’t that make me less desireable in her eyes ? I wouldn’t get noticed if we all know most girls now a days have 30+ dudes in their phone . Now , I know as men we’re supposed to go for whatever we want , no questions asked . Succeed and conquer . However , during this era , what makes us different if we’re beinng the chasers ? I swear I’ve noticed how I don’t talk to females or seen talking to them and I get a lot of girls staring at me or maybe I’m just being delusional and think they are . Right now , the only thing I have going for me is attending college and that’s it . Nothing else . I lift and do other hobbies as well . Talk to people at school that I know and that’s it . Does my post make sense ? Do I have the wrong mindset ? Eventually , I’ll want some pussy and will have to chase it , if that’s what it will come down to . I mean , approaching girls in person than online wouldn’t mean much to me . It just feeds her ego .

TLDR ; Why chase women when everyone else is doing it ? At some point , we have to be the prize we all achieve to be , right ? Chasing girls now a days feeds her ego . Is my mindset wrong or understandable ?