A few days ago, I decided to go out with a couple of buddies of mine. The thing is, I had no intentions on going out since I was exhausted from school work and it was around 11PM for me. My roommates and I had a few people over but they ended up leaving so I was left with more time on my hands. These last few weeks have been very demanding for me, and I wanted to enjoy a few nights with the guys and just go out. A few weeks ago, one of the guys and I ended up pulling two HB’s (7&9) so we were feeling pretty good about our chances that night.

This field report begins with getting into a popular bar for free (I know one of their employees and he just happened to see me and get me in for free) and waiting in the “free” line. The perks of the “free” line is that it’s an accelerated line and you of course get in for free. While I was waiting in this line, I ended seeing a HB9 (blonde hair, nice ass, you get it) and while I knew the approach would not be successful at that moment, I made a promise to myself that I would enjoy the night and approach her when I got a better chance. Let’s call her B.

As I walk into the bar, I did not see my friends since I left out a lot later than them since they had pre-gamed about three hours ago and have been here for at least another a solid hour. One thing that I have been working on is getting to know as many people as possible, so I talked to various people and I got a few numbers from it. It was not until 45 minutes later that I actually saw someone that I knew. We greeted each other and we had drinks while watching the NBA and MLB games.

At this point, we have about 30 minutes left so go off and do our own thing. As I’m walking around, I see the HB9 from before. She’s with a friend but I approach both of them. Since we are in a loud area, I led her to a more quiet area of the bar so we can talk. She was very responsive to my kino and the conversation. I got to learn a good amount of her and I ended up getting her number.

After a long night I decide to leave the bar, but as soon as I walk towards the exit, a HB7 makes eye-contact with me. She is J. I knew what to do at this point, so I got her name, and one minute into the conversation she asked if I could go with her to her friend’s place. Her friend ended up staying a few blocks away.

What I did not know was that there were two other guys and one girl. I felt highly good about the HB7 that invited me, so I did not care how the two other guys would handle the other girl. We head to her apartment, and it is pretty chill. We’re taking more shots, we’re dancing and we’re talking. It’s a good night. During all of J is on my lap and letting me have her way with her. It was not until later when one of the guys realizes that he will not get a girl (tonight), and he leaves.

The owner of the apartment then shows us around, and she leads me and her friend into the upper level, where the futon is at. I started making out with J, and I then I suggested that we go to the other room (J does not stay here), but she said we could take this back to my place. I was fine with all of this since this was about a three minute walk. Once she was ready (she went to the bathroom) she started making out with me aggressively. Before we left, I invited everyone to this party that I plan on throwing in the near future. When J asked me about it I playfully told her “No” and that “I’ll think about it” and she was trying so hard to get my number so she could go.

Once we left, she started kissing me again, but this time I was hit with LMR. She told me she has to get ready for an early class (it was almost 5 in the morning at this point) and while coming to my place sounds really fun, we would have to do this later on. This was two blocks away from my place.

After I finished my classes for the next day, I attempted to make plans with either B or J. B was busy, but we agreed that we should meet up for coffee sometime this week (win?) and J told me that she was already off campus, but she hoped that I enjoyed my night with her. Now this is where I think I messed up on, I responded with something like “I really enjoyed my time with you smirk face” I feel as if that was a weak response, and that I shot my own self in the foot with this one. Lessons learned:

• Sometimes it is better to stay a little longer than you intended. • If she is giving you the greenlight to have your way with her, you should take it home. • Just because she can not meet up the day of, that does not mean she will not be free later on.

That’s the conclusion, feel free to critique and/or ask any questions. I plan on texting B tonight to make plans on Wednesday. I might soft next J.

TL;DR: OP goes out with the guys, ends up getting LMR from girl he met at a bar.