So forgive yourself. You are still avoiding relationships, cohabitation and marriage. There are more risks having flings than being completely monk but when you’re a young healthy guy in your 20s it can be difficult to go straight up monk.

Bit of projecting here because I still have sex with women, including married women to be honest. But only when it’s an open relationship on their end; not when they’re straight up cheating on their husbands that’s a good way to get shot or stabbed.

I think when you hit your mid to late 30s, sometimes sooner sometimes later depending on who you are you just don’t have that same overwhelming libido and the issues associated with it.

I think this can be the biggest obstacle for younger guys trying to go their own way. They have a crazy sex drive and think they aren’t “cut out” to be MGTOW or something and end up in more stupid relationships just to get access to sex.