Being Competent Undervalued

BobbyPeru · 2017-11-12T21:09:52+00:00

AWALT and Hypergamy will always seek to utilize you on an as needed basis, and your usefulness has shelf life in most LTR’s. Once your usefulness has run its course or she just gets bored with you, then you are called upon in these one-off situations.

This is just RP 101 stuff.

The Progress starts when we stop being the one-off guy in waiting, whether it’s perceived or real... it’s the same thing.

You are in the anger phase, but that’s a starting point at least.

[deleted] · 2017-11-12T22:03:30+00:00

Nothing new here.

Although, I do wonder why you might have even bothered to respond if it doesn't directly affect you.

I would have just let these cunts fall on their faces.

UrsusG · 2017-11-12T21:38:57+00:00

this one pissed me off so much I just blew her off.

And the others?

Especially the ex wife: did you do that thing for her?

If you did, there's your answer why they feel entitled to call you.

shakespeareSMG · 2017-11-12T23:36:00+00:00

That’s being too nice.

Classic white knight.

Tell them to fuck off.

They will turn around real quick or not bother you at all.

MattyAnon · 2017-11-13T00:32:31+00:00

Today's incident was far from the first time this has happened. Women I haven't talked to in ages have no problem calling and asking for favors.

Entitlement is in their nature.

You need to learn to say no if you want respect.

Westernhagen · 2017-11-13T03:51:10+00:00

You don't have to be competent if you can use your vagina to convince someone competent get things done for you.

This shouldn't really be news to anyone.

FireDrillem · 2017-11-12T21:13:21+00:00

TRP refers to this as being "sacrificed". Your sacrifice is expected. Don't take it personal. I use my exceptional competence to avoid errors while excelling at my mission. I still help women and children at times but I keep it short and sweet. Stay focused.

empatheticapathetic · 2017-11-12T23:32:55+00:00

You just described BRIFFAULT’S LAW:

The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.

There are a few corollaries I would add:

Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.

Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit (see corollary 1)

A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male (which is not bloody likely).

LiveAFTSOV · 2017-11-13T03:59:09+00:00

The entitlement is what really gets me. A guy would never call someone who he hasn't talked to for years to beg a favor.

ex spent all her money... I get called and I commits a misdemeanor by turning her water back on

Maybe they call you cus you're a faggot who would risk their ass for a female they havent fucked in ages.

Why are you doing this shit for them?

Why are you a captain save a hoe?

I bet you bailed out most if not all of these women who call you - and that's why they call you - you're their helper boy. Their errand boy.

You dont owe them shit tell them to go fuck them-selves.

Cmon nigga

Sicario007 · 2017-11-13T06:46:50+00:00

That's because you are being a yes man white Knight. Don't blame them, blame yaself.

MedinaPharma · 2017-11-12T22:31:53+00:00

Don't take this as being judgemental in any way, pussy is pussy after-all, but goddamn you've been banging some trailer trash.

Ichewfivegum · 2017-11-12T21:26:28+00:00

Why do they think you can help them. Why are they calling you? Don't give em shit. Especially not your ex wife.

ShabbyDonkey · 2017-11-12T21:32:04+00:00

that how I feel at times so I just express myself in different realities and try to fit in where I fit in. My last relationships was amazing the girl also believed In aliens, like myself.

ShabbyDonkey · 2017-11-12T21:32:12+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nyg-GEOpc5Y&t=15s

tk421awol · 2017-11-14T00:34:09+00:00

What you allow is what will continue. If you don't value your time and efforts enough to deny them to people who offer you nothing of value, then why should anyone else?

Step 1: Go read No More Mr. Nice Guy

Step 2: Realizing you are BEING Mr. Nice Guy

Step 3: STOP being Mr. Nice Guy

Step 4: Profit

This is the part of TRP that most guys miss. It's not about fucking more and better women (though that is pleasant and will come in time), it's about making a better you. In this case, your path to improvement is simple: learn to say no. But like our boy Neo said, there's a difference between knowing the path and walking the path.

Title	Being Competent Undervalued
Author	coco5440
Upvotes	4
Comments	24
Date	November 12, 2017 8:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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