So I may have confessed here before I had almost zero success with girls in my teens (which we can put down to extreme nerdiness, an all boy's high school and just general social ineptness/beta behavior). Things have slowly gotten better in my 20s and I have gone out with a few girls this year.

So I recently turned 24 and have finally got my first friend-with-benefits situation. I finished uni a few months ago and have been applying to teach English in China (now confirmed - will be going to Shenzhen in January). Have been working part-time + doing other things in meantime but with the relative free time I took up salsa dancing again.

Every month they have a big potluck/costume party. October's was a Halloween theme so I wore an old Darth Vader Costume. Chatted with a few friends and danced with a few girls there (costume was impressive - several people wanted photos).

At one point started talking to these two cute girls who turned out to be from Mauritius. Danced with one of them, then about an hour later the three of us (plus one other random guy) went out to a latin dance bar (got changed first of course). We got drinks and I practiced my nascent flirting skills. Soon went on to the dance floor and picked one of the two.

Shamelessly started feeling her up - including reaching under her skirt. She stopped me a bunch of times but was smiling. Beta me would probably have been too scared to continue but I persevered, kissed her a lot. Even picked her up and swung her around a few times which had her giggling.

Eventually it got late and the two girls needed to go home. I asked my girl for her number and she gave it to me. Her friend was staying over that night so she said I couldn't come with her straight away (she explained 'I'm quite loud!') but we agreed to meet the next day.

I wondered if maybe she'd flake but next day I texted her and we were still on. Turned out she lived only a 15 min drive from me. Went over, flirted for a bit more and we banged.

Had work later that evening but have since gone over (usually staying the night) about twice a week. She's older than me (in her 30s) and very short (under 5 foot) which I don't mind at all, but she's definitely not bad looking and horny as hell (meets my main requirement not to be overweight). When she texts me the conversation can be as simple as 'sex tonight?' 'ok'. Last time we binged watched 'Stranger Things' with regular sex breaks between episodes then went to the beach the next day.

Suspect some manosphere guys will be all 'oh man you can do better than 30-something Mauritian pussy go bang a Taylor-Swift lookalike...' but I'm quite pleased with the arrangement. She loves how I'm over a foot taller than her and can throw her around in bed so easily. Its good practice at sex - I can usually make her cum a bunch of times. She often cooks dinner for me and even pays when we go out (she works full-time for a big company and makes decent $$$). We went on a daytrip the other day and I was driving her brand new car along country roads at 160km/hr or so (fun).

She also knows I'm going to China and is ok with it (reminded of the wisdom here to always put your goals first) so yeah, I'm quite pleased with myself overall. A good way to spend this summer with my little Mauritian fuck buddy :D