How can I come to terms with modern women's sexual behavior so I can date?

SoftHarem · 2013-06-08T11:15:25+00:00

You don't get into monogamous relationships with them, real simple.

2013-06-08T10:12:14+00:00

Travel. Honestly, playing the game outside of the west is easy mode.

2013-06-08T09:04:02+00:00

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sfstexan · 2013-06-08T09:14:20+00:00

My best advice would be to get your numbers up.

Once you've gone through 100's of women, you'll care less. And, you'll accept for what/who they are and what value they can actually bring into your life.

AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-06-08T13:51:54+00:00

by skipping the dating phase.

forechanrefugee · 2013-06-08T10:49:52+00:00

My Advice.
Get the idea of "Settling for..", "Coming to Terms with" or "Accepting..." Unacceptable behavior Out of your Head.

Yes the Majority of them are like this. That does not mean ALL are like this. Just like we few have broken away from the mold. There are women who shun the usual practices as well.

If you really want lasting happiness, don't start a relationship out on a poor foundation like "i'm coming to terms with your annoying ways... so.."

It's a recipe for disaster.

Personally, i don't want a saint, i simply want a woman who values herself and has enough going on in her life to not need the short-lived, emotionally stabilizing effect that sleeping around gives you. So i'm holding out for that. I've been waiting this long, a little longer isn't going to kill me.

so put your feelers out - Like Calls to Like when it comes to principles and goals, and have Patience: It's the easiest virtue to possess as it simply requires you to do Nothing; just channel your laziness at the proper time.

30303030303030 · 2013-06-08T08:54:39+00:00

I struggled with the same thing, still do a bit, I don't mind sluts, they make my job easier but I have beaten the idea of marriage or kids out of my head. Without marriage and kids women are only fuck toys, so for all I care they can be sluts. Just wear a condom. I still fight with having romantic feelings for majority of them but Nutz says it takes more experience/time to get rid of it and I believe him.

Only thing that worries me is that you say you are aware of redpill for few years. Kinda long to have any romantic delusions about women left after being exposed to trp for so long. I'm curious what more experienced users will say, especially mods.

especially when some women act like they're saints in front of me then something different in front of other men

http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/10/good-girls-do/

ss_camaro · 2013-06-08T09:47:15+00:00

Don't date. That's step one; of a thousand step journey.

2013-06-08T09:02:46+00:00

How do I come to terms with it so I can maintain some sort of stability?

Get over it, accept it. You don't get pissed at fish for swimming do you?

How can I trigger them to show me the slutty side of them?

That statement....

I've been reading redpill blogs/pickup stuff for a few years so I'm very familiar with the ideas here.

...and this statement, don't belong in the same universe.

You got these big fucking claws and these big fucking teeth and you want to know how to kill the bunny.

2013-06-11T17:58:52+00:00

I have short term noncommitted flings. Everytime i start thinking nawalt Ill go out to a music bar and listen to the girls with boyfriends talk about how they want to fuck the lead singer of the band.

Id love a relationship. But I doubt its going to happen. Not in the US anyways. Met a bloke from australia this weekend. Good dude in his thirties. We got ti talking. He had just spent a time in south america and told me he was terrified to go back home because aussie women "all act like men". Also told me he was shocked because "american girls dance like prostitutes".

You just have to stop caring about women. Its sad that our culture is this way. I personally think its been socially engineered to put women in control for the purposes of increasing consumer spending. We all know women buy all the useless shit. Watch 'century of the self' its a bbc documentary. Youll see what I mean.

2013-06-08T14:27:48+00:00

my biggest victory is when my girlfriend, after i introduced her to red pill, counselled one of her girlfriends to read up on it because a lot of it made sense. those women are out there but it now up to you, after honing your red pill craft, to weed out the losers.

whiskey_bearfist · 2013-06-10T20:07:33+00:00

you may find luck in conservative religious communities that aren't too crazy.

Title	How can I come to terms with modern women's sexual behavior so I can date?
Author	dbaan
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Date	June 8, 2013 8:37 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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