Okay, so we all know about microchimerism and telegony right? No biggie. Basically, for the first all a woman's previous Sexual partners sperm (or was it DNA the former obviously meaning both) gets stored in her brain and the latter meaning that any kid she has has DNA from all or some of her previous sexual partners.

Another way the cads eat their cake and have it as the telegony selects the physique of the fitter male and most likely other traits as well. MGTOW thus love fucking other men's wives in the raw as those self-righteous bastards will now be raising their children and it is illegal to try and prove otherwise.

Imagine you play a game that I used to play with my mates in Glasgow. We run into a gas station or liquor store for a box of assorted Hard Mike's Alcohol. The first gets the best pick in descending order even if choices are a little idiosyncratic the last guy has the greatest chance of getting something he doesn't like say ending up with a lemon (unless you're a masochist) Worse, he pays full price for it. I was last only one time and it hit me with this realization. Cause often the loser got nothing.

You get her first, she's vulnerable but completely open to love. It's the first time. She learns the most from you and she's at her most flexible so she adapts to you the best.

The others get her in different stages of emotional baggage until she's fully actualized and you aren't going to get it that way with her again. I heard a woman talk to her daughter about her youth, her cad days and she ended with " I love your dad but there are some sides of me he'll never know" All women have that Nicolas John Harley Pellowe and it's definitely not whom she marries.

Marriage psychologist say that when women cheat they seek out their earliest old flings or the most dissolute of their lovers. Seen on the doctor's excerpt by MGTOW 101. It may be the wall but then even younger women did this. Michelle Langley said that a woman takes her frustration out on her married partner after her cad calls off their affair and eventually if he sees her drifting off and he devoted more time to her, she confesses to Michelle to have less feeling for him than a stranger on the street and a visceral revulsion to having sex with him.

References

Rotating Polyandry and it's enforcers by F. Roger Devlin.

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a25414-the-alpha-widow-how-they-come-to-be

Edit: Apparently heartiste did an article on this topic, "fifty years of pining. I read it - it's really good. Link is here:

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/04/08/five-minutes-of-alpha-fifty-years-of-pining/

Credit to /u/newls for pointing this out to me.

Second edit: Rollo has pointed out to me that some good material on the topic as well. I haven't read them yet but I'm sure they're good stuff.

http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/06/the-slut-paradox/