Sometimes I wonder why men still marry or need women... Obviously, for sex. While crucial for men, let me tell you what sex is to women - on a biological level.

Imagine life is a 5 course meal, and the goal is to by the end of life feel full. For most men, no doubt, sex is the main dish, the one enjoyment in life, the part that makes life feel full.

For women... the main dish might be career, stable lifestyle. having children - this varies, but biologically, it's not sex. Sex is more like whipped cream on a dessert - she's already had the appetizer (e.g. career), the main course (marriage. kids?), the dessert (for example friends), and sex is like that nice addition. It doesn't make life feel full - in fact, the meal will fill you up without it! This is hopefully a good explanation to why married men struggle to have sex with their wives, why women are generally more reluctant and not as keen, and why rape is even a thing. They just do not need it.

This is observable in animal kingdom too - the female birds look for the biggest nest, the lioness will seek a big mane, none chase after the sensation that can come from copulation.

This world is not that great of a place to accommodate the need for sex of men, especially with the wave of feminism, where women are perfectly fine not doing it even with their husbands. No wonder they choose to exchange it for favors or money.

I hope this was as eye opening for you as it was for me, when I first concluded it after speaking with someone honest enough to admit this.