Around 4 years ago when I was 27, I had a FWB relationship with a cute girl that lived close by. We had been fucking for around a year, it was always pretty good. I also had made it clear to her that we were never going to date and it seemed at least on the surface that she was ok with it. We had our ups and downs like most people but generally we got along well and I mostly enjoyed hanging out with her.

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One really cold night in December I went to her place to chill and fuck like usual. She lived with her parents still but there was a separate garage with a loft behind her house that we would stay in that had a bed and a TV set up, we never went into her actual house. I had a nice guitar with me at the time so I asked her to put it inside her parents house instead of leaving it in my car.

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Fast forward about 3 hours, it's 2am. We've fucked a couple times, now drinking some beers. This particular night, she got really drunk, which wasn't uncommon, but normally we would get shitty together. I had only drank about 3 beers and was intent on not getting drunk since I knew I wasn't staying the night and needed to go to work the next day.

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I tell her I'm going to head out and ask her to please grab my guitar from her parents house so I can leave. She (very drunk now) says "no, you need to fuck me once more before you leave." I laugh, tell her I appreciate that, but I really do have to go since it's so late. She keeps it up, starts undressing and bends over on the bed, demanding I fuck her. At this point you'd think I would relish the opportunity, but I had already busted two times, was starting to get whiskey-dick, super tired, etc. I told her again, "no, I need to go home now." This goes on for another 5 minutes, and now I'm becoming enraged. I tell her she is being a huge bitch by not letting me leave, I have work tomorrow, etc.

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As ridiculous as it sounds, I was choosing not to fuck her now because I was adamant about showing her that she can't just control me like that. She continues to lie on the bed laughing saying "well you know what you gotta do so you can leave." Finally, I tell her I'm going to just go bang on her parents front door (she had a super shitty relationship with her parents) and tell her you were being crazy and wouldn't give me my shit back.

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She immediately sits up on the bed and with a coy little smile on her face says "if you wake my parents up, I'm doing to tell my Dad you raped me." I was absolutely stunned. Up until that very moment in my life, I had never once been accused of any sexual misconduct or feared for my reputation in that sort of way. Everything changed in an instant. I don't even remember what I said in response to her because it was such a shocking moment in my life. I do remember the instant dread I felt of being labeled a rapist and how everything in my life could be taken away because of one drunken cunt.

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I also remember the MASSIVE red pill being shoved up my ass at that moment. Realizing that women hold ALL of the leverage in relationships. That it doesn't matter what I did, and the mere threat of an accusation is enough to establish control.

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The night ended with me (very calmly) having to talk her into letting me grab my guitar and leave. I was pretty sure I had avoided disaster, and she wasn't actually mad at me. Driving home I was wondering if she would even remember what she did.

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So guess what I did the next day? Ghosted her completely right? Slowly ease her out of my life to prevent any blowback? Nope - I went back to her house and fucked her just like normal for the next few months because I was a fucking IDIOT. Are any of you really surprised?

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I've improved a lot as a person and am far more MGTOW leaning now than I was then, but if there's anything I really learned from that situation, it's that even after going through a potential rape accusation, my thirst for good pussy was embarrassingly strong. It's just insane what men will do and go through just to get laid.

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Today, I don't talk to her anymore and by all accounts she seems to be doing well. God knows how many women are out there who have casually threatened rape or something of that nature to get what they want - and have ZERO consequences for that. What a world we live in.