What is the psychology behind a girl constantly rejecting a guy and then eventually marrying him?

boodie_1961 · 2018-09-23T09:24:42+00:00

Before 30, AF. After 30, BB

Delita_Wasnt_Wrong · 2018-09-23T11:57:51+00:00

Feminism has created a few phases for women now where they constantly search for validation and happiness but end up less happy in the long run.

It used to be:

Teenage years: Date a guy, maybe 2. No sex yet

College years: Date a guy or two, maybe sleep with him if you get engaged

20s: Have kids, create a home together, raise kids, find hobbies

60s: Retire with the same man you were loyal to

Now it’s like this

Teenage years: Fuck at least 2 guys or more before college.

College years: Buffet of cock while you get a worthless degree that will pay peanuts because you didn’t think rationally when you chose your major

20s: Tinder, clubs, short term relationships. Maybe a couple of abortions. Heavy drinking

30s: Try to find a long term relationship because Chad stopped replying to your texts and/or just wants a quick fuck and no relationship. Now you’ve upgraded from Tinder to Match to find a “soulmate” (fat wallet beta). Go on dates with men you shallowly chose on specific physical criteria instead of their personalities. Get married.

40s: After having a kid or two with Billy Beta, let the sex dry up. Maybe have some affairs on the side and get it in your head that you can do better. Then divorce rape him and enter your Eat Pray Love stage where you use his money to travel and ride any decent dick that will have you when he has Little Johnny for the weekend or when you graciously “let him stay with him” in the summer. Oddly your options are even more limited, even though that issue of Cosmopolitan said that women 40 and older are hot and confident!

50s and beyond: Now that the alimony and child support ran out, work your shit job and live in your apartment with a cat or 3. If you’re lucky and/or the Wall hasn’t hit you too hard, you might find another Beta to wife you up for a second round of divorce rape. But most likely you’ll live alone with cats, with children who resent you for breaking up your family selfishly, and men who don’t want to fuck a dried up, used up wrinkled roast beef pussy.

That was pretty long, maybe this should have been a post instead of a comment.

SmamelessMe · 2018-09-23T10:36:02+00:00

There are three reasons:

She "wanted to make sure he was a fighter and don't give up easily. -- What she says
She started striking out on CC and had to settle down. -- What she knows.
She wanted to make sure she's selecting for a partner who will follow her in the relationship. -- What she does.

ProgrammaticallyMeal · 2018-09-23T09:35:30+00:00

Personally I think the woman always knew that she liked him

Personally I think the woman always knew that she liked ~~him~~ his exploitability.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2018-09-23T09:30:22+00:00

Alpha fucks Beta bucks

lawndart1000 · 2018-09-23T09:51:34+00:00

She has to let him build up some resources so she can get some parting gifts and cash prizes in the eventual divorce rape.

GhostArmorMode · 2018-09-23T09:37:00+00:00

She hasn't finished fucking Chad and Tyrone yet.

2018-09-23T10:14:52+00:00

To show her how much of a BB he is

jonathino001 · 2018-09-23T11:51:19+00:00

Because unlike men, it isn't a binary "like or don't like". It's as if they rank men on a point scale, and then assign themselves a point value based on how good of a guy they think they can get. If their ego goes up, they'll try to monkey branch. Or if their perception of your value improves, they'll change their minds about you.

DangZagnut · 2018-09-23T12:13:08+00:00

It's called not having anyone interested.

I'm hot, so lots of guys want to fuck me and spend money on me. I have some ugly male friends, who hit on me, but they suck and are boring.

One day hot guys won't fuck me any more, so I settle for a simp who is boring, but makes good money, so now he can spend money on me. Not that I'll fuck him, unless it makes me a ~~ATM~~ baby.

TheBattlingBastard · 2018-09-23T13:12:22+00:00

It’s a power play to see if she will have control during marriage.

If the man jumps through a bunch of hoops to get her she knows he will be afraid to lose her because he invested so much.

When she starts pouting because she doesn’t get her way he will come running and submit because of the fear of lose

Sneakybobo · 2018-09-23T14:21:35+00:00

When she realizes she has less options, she 'settles'

2018-09-23T19:03:45+00:00

She has finished sliding up and down on every dick in town and has decided to settle down with beta cuck. Until the divorce.

CursingWhileNursing · 2018-09-23T17:19:28+00:00

I think the woman always knew that she liked him...

...just enough to be considered as a backup plan for harsh times (aka facing the wall).

but ~~subconsciously~~

very purposefully...

she is putting him in a place of submission by making him constantly chase her and orbit...

You definitely got this one right.

which in effect causes the man to ~~place her on a higher pedestal when they do get married.~~

...stay in a perpetual statue of being confused and insecure caused by her drawing him closer to her and then immediately pushing him back. Just close enough to make him think that she actually might have feelings for him (and just does not want to "ruin the friendship" or BS like that) and just far enough to make sure he will not actually walk away from her.

In most of those cases, he already has put her on a pedestal high enough to break his neck if he tried to climb it. Why do you think men stick with those women, watching them fucking one guy and another... and another... while using him as emotional garbage bin and giving a fuck about the pain she is causing? Because pedestal.

No, there is no "subconscious" part to find here, women like this usually know damn well what they do. And she already controlled the relationship years before it actually started.

Nope, the only reason she is doing this is because she has realised he will be a nice and faithful provider who has proven to be tolerant and stupid enough to ignore her bullshit. She knows that when he allows her to put him under such emotional stress and cause so much pain to him for years, he will also endure unenthusiastic starfish sex every few weeks or months, cheating, her wasting his money and all kinds of abusive behaviour.

Zombocom1911 · 2018-09-23T18:55:04+00:00

she thinks he prefers to settle down with a well used, loose pussy that he can't even feel?

2018-09-23T21:07:47+00:00

She was “sowing her wild oats”

Title	What is the psychology behind a girl constantly rejecting a guy and then eventually marrying him?
Author	Londonliving99
Upvotes	51
Comments	26
Date	September 23, 2018 9:19 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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