Need some help with gf

socialdominantcom · 2018-09-18T20:09:20+00:00

Break up for gods sake.

ZedFour_S23 · 2018-09-18T20:11:34+00:00

You’ll only get one answer on this sub: dump her. You’ll save yourself alot of misery

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2018-09-18T20:15:19+00:00

Break up with her, or deal with the constant back and forth until "oops" she forgot her pill and she's pregnant. If you need sex that bad then idk what to tell you - been celibate for 18 months now and I find this lifestyle much less stressful.

MenGoingTOWin · 2018-09-18T20:52:18+00:00

Go to /r/TheRedPill for PUA tactics on how to keep pretending like you are worth nothing but a slave to pussy. We'll welcome you back after you've been burned enough times to actually start living for yourself.

socialdominantcom · 2018-09-18T21:25:15+00:00

Looking at your other comments, you are trying to have two mutually exclusive things. She changed the game. She will stop offering sex if you do not offer commitment. If you do not offer commitment (what everyone here is recommending), no more sex. One of you will break up with the other soon after.

We are trying to say you can control how it ends, instead of you coming back here to complain how badly she treated you if you don't decide first.

jkarovskaya · 2018-09-18T21:46:20+00:00

Friend, you sound young, so let an old guy give you a bit of advice about women.

They want security. They have an agenda. They want to control you and the relationship.

This is what women have been taught to want via biology, social media, cultural and tribal customs, and wanting to reproduce.

You can't have a long term relationship with younger women without facing the facts that she will want a wedding, children, and a nice house that you're likely to be paying the lion's share of.

Bottom line>

don't cohabitate, don't get attached, dont have long term relationships, and above all avoid the legal prison that marriage will chain you to.

TheImpossible1 · 2018-09-18T20:38:51+00:00

Dump.

catboxbob · 2018-09-18T21:52:17+00:00

i am witnessing your car crash before it happens.my nephew got marriead about a year ago,they now have a kid almost a year old.she was always fat,he was happy with that.now a year on she is losing the weight and posting insta pics saying lost weight more confidence etc.what happens next is he will be at home holding the baby while she rides the CC,knowing full well if the shit hits the fan she will be secure and he will be divorce raped.

MarriedZombie · 2018-09-18T22:20:48+00:00

No matter how good the sex is or the social thing is, we all guarantee you that if you take it to the next level, sex will dry up, she'll become boring, lazy and probably fat and you will be making 5x the effort you are doing now just to fend off the nagging. Your soul will be crushed and You'll be a shell of the once great man you used to be. You'll end up doing most of the house work and maintenance of everything. Good luck.

betterredthenwed · 2018-09-18T20:24:35+00:00

Would you stay in a job that might provide benefits and raises but requires a legal contract that could cost you 50%+ of your assets for 18+ plus years if they're unhappy with your performance?

If you're unsure that means you're not sure.

escalover · 2018-09-18T20:38:21+00:00

Once they catch the marriage virus, they're lost. Get a plate.

westnblue · 2018-09-18T20:48:13+00:00

All relationships end. the seemingly happy ones are just going through the process.

Do you want sacrifice 10, 15 or 20 yrs of your life just to break up anyway and have nothing to show for your life?

Look ahead at people 5,10 or 20years down the road at what you want to do. if you like what you see then do it otherwise run!

cyborg_type_darkness · 2018-09-18T21:00:17+00:00

You know what? Marry her and get miserable as time goes on. She'll become fat, you become a workhorse and you will be unhappy in the long run. But hey, at least you will come back here and say we were right. /s

mgtow-zen · 2018-09-18T23:34:18+00:00

If you have your own room or space, you might move in. But make sure she knows you won't be having kids or getting married. Also, it's wise to have a safe place to go during disputes. A friends place or something like that. You don't want to be there when the police show up.

Also, get a vasectomy yesterday. If you insist on torturing yourself, your chances of making a clean break later go up if you have no kids.

Sounds like you are feeding a bear. She will eat you once you've run out of food.

Everyone else says dump, but something tells me you won't. It is hard, but you should know this won't last.

astuteglute · 2018-09-18T23:49:27+00:00

No marriage, VASECTOMY, try like hell.

socialdominantcom · 2018-09-18T23:58:05+00:00

I have a gf

Problem identified! Extirpate.

NietzscheExplosion · 2018-09-19T00:48:12+00:00

Go to the redpill

Title	Need some help with gf
Author	socialdominantcom
Upvotes	2
Comments	43
Date	September 18, 2018 8:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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