I've never been in a serious relationship because I've never had guys I like being interested in me. I have a very high libido so waiting to get into a relationship for sex wasn't working me and I started using apps to hook up with guys. The guys I only had a sexual interest in and didn't text me back afterwards, I didn't care (although most of them did text back to hook up again) but the ones I actually liked I tried to have normal conversations without getting into the sexual stuff, always end up changing me for someone else and ghosting.

Talking to the ones I liked without showing my sexual side is really annoying to me because why should we hide it and make them wait for it in order to be seen as more than a hookup? Which has me wondering how does a woman tells a guy to wait?

Since most of the guys I met with where only meant for sex, I didn't make them wait but i would like to change that now to stop being side chick material(which sucks because I love being physical) so how does one say it without the guy completely ghosting? So many women do it and I think if I did it I would get replaced super fast. Also, if you kiss and get touchy, how do you stop before it gets serious if you really want to do it?

Would love to hear what you say, thank you ☺️