I wish I'd found MGTOW before I ended up in the situation I am in. I was with my ex-girlfriend for three years until she cheated on me and lied right to my face in May. We have a child together and he was born out of wedlock and in the state of Oklahoma, the mother has full custody until paternal rights can be established my son is one. When we first split I had him Monday through Friday, eventually a month or two later she wanted a different schedule and now I would get him every weekend I agreed. Now once again she's changed the terms and is taking him every other weekend and tells me "It's her decision not mine." So glad we didn't get married, we were engaged as of right now I'm not paying child support. I hadn't had a whole lot of experience with the evil nature of women. It wasn't even hypergamy the "dude" she left me for is a fucking criminal/felon all he had on me was a vehicle. I've been dealing with all of this to the best of my abilities for the last three months. I'm not on here for sympathy or anything just to warn anyone who's thinking of marriage or anything long term with women, bottom line AWALT.

Delete if not allowed. ***UPDATE ON THIS POST On November 1st I got temporary custody of my son with her having supervised visits and more than likely I will be getting him permanently she just keeps on fucking up.