So tonight didn’t go as planned but that’s okay, I alway try to find a lesson or look at the good side of everything.

I’m 21, college student, 5’6, 170 lbs, maintain a pretty solid build, buzzed cut on the sides. And I’m a solid 7 when it comes to attractiveness, fucked 8 women in my lifetime but I’m trying to step my whole life up. I’m starting my own lawn business and work another 30 hour a week job trying to make shit happen.

Heres the important stuff :

About a week ago a girl I used to go to school with DMed on me Instagram asking how I’ve been. I told her good and asked how she was doing and we exchanged a few messages and I had her on snap from years ago and told her to Snapchat me instead of texting me on instagram. This girl cleans up to a strong 8 when she tries. Anyway she mentioned first that we should hangout sometime and I agreed. Well she would take two or three days to reply to snapchats, well I had told her one night to just text me. Three days later she replied to that snap saying you finally asked for my number and all kinds of bullshit.

Well I started texting her last night. And around 12 o’clock today I texted her saying hey we should get a drink after you get off work today. She agreed and asked if I was in town and I said no but I will be later. I never heard back from her. So at 7 asked if she could be at the new hangout in town in 30 min. She told me she was visiting her dad she said I never replied which I did and proved with a screen shot of our messages and she started apologizing and she said she would totally understand if I hated her and all kinds of bullshit, but she could meet me at 8:30 but she said she would look like a complete bum if she showed up. So I told her hey that’s up to you, I’ll be there whether you show up or not. And I said it just like that.

Well in the mean time I went to this hangout and a bartender named Cassondra took care of me last week ( she’s a strong ten, I’m 21, she’s 24) she’s a dime and moving to Cali in June and I want some cassondra before she moves back to Cali. I cracked a few jokes with her and talked to her a few times. Take note these girls are very busy and get hit on just as much as your hooters girls.

Well in the midst of all this my mother calls and ask what I’m doing and I told her I was drinking a beer at walk ons and she said she wanted to grab a bite to eat. Sure dear mother let’s spend some time together. Take note I don’t want this girl showing up like a bum to eat and drink with me at this place. Mom at this point is better than a bum. Well boom I sit down and the bar tender looks at me and says “coors right” I nodded my head yess. I met this girl one Time and after the thousands of people she serves a day she remembered what I drink without saying a word to me.

I’m not wishful thinking, she remembered me for a reason. That reason is probably because I cracked a few jokes, wasn’t overly friendly to her and made just a little bit of eye contact and conversation with her.

Well my mom meets me and we eat and mom leaves. Cassondra comes up to me and ask if that was my mom so I said with a smile yeah that’s my mom. I asked cassondra what she was doing this weekend and she said she was going to the river. I had already planned to go to the river this weekend and she asked me if I was going. So I said idk we’ll see. While all this going on I have had my card ready to be swiped for my beer on the bar for 20 minutes and it’s almost like she is purposely not swiping just so she can talk to me. When I see her this weekend on the river I’m starting a small convo and hitting her with “we should go out some time, what’s your number”.

Constructive criticism strongly recommended