This is the single worst advice a person could give you. If you don't give a fuck, they won't give a fuck either.

There is too much competition to be passive. The average girl gets like 50 messages on her phone every day. If you just let her be, she will most likely forget you in one day max. There are other guys, perhaps better than you, going for her and if you "don't give a fuck" she will date them instead.

There is this whole idea that women like men who don't pursue them or that pussy gets wet when she gets ignored. At early dating stage (pre sex), you are as expendable as the oxygen she breathes. If you wait too long, if you are not direct, if wait for her to make a move, you have already lost. Someone else will step in and she will be old news.

Like I said, there is just too much competition nowdays. Even chad has to compete with other chads and unless he takes action, some other chad will take the girl. I honestly don't know who came up with this idiotic "don't give a fuck" advice. If you are sub 8, chances are she is not crazy for you from early on, and she will simply forget you if you don't make a move.

This advice could work if YOU ALREADY HAVE some sort of emotional bond with a woman (you are lovers) so you know that there is a chance she is going to react to your passiveness. But, if you are at an early stage (pre sex) she won't be having any connection to you so you are just digging your own grave by being passive.

Take action, call her, try to escalate, it's not gonna happen on it's own. You have to make your intentions clear from the start, if you ignore her she will forget about you. You ARE NOT SO SPECIAL that you are in a posistion to ignore a girl and expect her to make a move on you.