When I was at my worst with women several years ago, I purchased a book on Amazon called "The Manual". It was the first book I had ever read on the subject of seducing women... For me, it was a great read and really changed my life. I never purchased another book on the subject as I felt this one covered just about everything very well. I recently started reading the book again as I felt I was falling back into some non attractive behaviors. Anyway, in the chapter on confidence, the author describes online dating as a cowardly and less than ideal way to meet beautiful women. He said that the best way is, and always will be, approaching women directly in real life and that online dating is just an easy way out for men who lack enough confidence to do the former. I must of forgot about this part of the book, or maybe non-consciously blocked it out due to laziness and not wanting to approach women directly. I immediately deleted tinder and made a decision to start approaching more women in real life situations. Even if you don't agree that dating apps/websites are for men who lack confidence, do you think that time spent on those would better served doing the same thing in real life? I.e., cold approaching women?