Or so has been said. I’d like to preface by stating that I’m not a part of the redpill community, but enjoy challenging my beliefs and view TRP as a buffet where you take the good and leave the bad.

A long time ago I’ve read here a strong case for equating being a weak frame, overly emotional guy with being a slut who is loose with her body. Simple put a guy who easily puts out commitment is as low status and broken as a girl who easily puts out sex.

After some deep introspection derived from spirituality and mindfulness, I’ve found out something about my psyche and inner trauma. I’ve got mommy issues boys. Deep wounds from childhood distance, emotional neglect, and an over-aggressive tigermom. My father is a natural alpha but is a shitty person, bad boy to the core and someone I don’t like but still respect. As a result I’ve always been naturally dominant and masculine, but have this major injury when it comes to female relationships. While many of you were raised within a feminized frame, I was raised the opposite way which come with its own challenges.

Naturally, my male and female energies are out of whack, I realize now where my feminine side comes from now. I act more warm and feminine subconsciously, as if trying to balance myself out. Men need women. Men draw these energies externally from women. Women in turn draw stability, structure, direction back from men. I haven’t been paying heed to this all my life.

My question is this then. Is it wrong or bad to rely on female friends for emotional support? For healing and wholeness, I find that I need to connect emotionally with women. I was dominant socially, but I was a sensitive soul who quickly learned that other boys didn’t feel things the way I did. My wound has always left me with a thirst for emotional connection but I would always dump all that shit on some poor girl I was dating and sent her headed for the hills. So my solution is this, make more female friends, and connect emotionally with all of them in a non-boy-girl way.

I’m talking about intentionally friend zoning myself (well, friend zoning them rather. as I know it’d be retarded to do this with a girl I was attracted to). Am I being an emotional slut? Would love to have a discussion here, hope I could share some insight as well.