I thought i was the only one who was "MGTOW"

apollon_r · 2018-08-14T09:34:35+00:00

Exactly the same happened to me. Found this sub after becoming 22 years old. Finally it made sense. Been living MGTOW for years without knowing it and feeling like something was wrong with me. But now I know my subconciousnes simply decided what to think of woman for me!

SamBarltrop97 · 2018-08-14T09:35:32+00:00

21 and can relate. Always knew I was "different" for my lack of interest in women/relationships, but thought I was alone so naturally I thought I was in the wrong and tried to conform to what I now know as being a simp. As you might expect this led to emotional strain and disappointment, so I decided to go my own way and be proud of it. Having recently discovered the MGTOW community , it has been amazing as I now realise it is not me that is alone or wrong.

At my age I'm already noticing a lot of friends going full simp and they are practically dead to me now. Their girlfriends don't like them spending time with someone as free as I am. Although in the past they may have joked about my lack of girlfriends etc, now they actually tell me they envy my position.

If you're making these discoveries at age 17 you're certainly ahead of the game by a long shot and don't forget that.

MGTOW-Balance · 2018-08-14T13:12:19+00:00

to all you young guys here i have only one bit of advice, please invest for your futures

y'all are already ahead of the game and are not gonna waste time and money on stupid shit like most men do

you're welcome

urban3879 · 2018-08-14T09:20:23+00:00

Welcome

Jonny-Wavenhoe · 2018-08-14T10:35:25+00:00

Girls tried to grab your junk when you didn't want the attention...?!

And women say all men are abusers for things like that we might have each done once in our lives (actually, even just winking's considered abuse by many).

Need more stories like this aspect of yours to stand up to #MeToo.

MenToo - you thots touch us up too, so enough of the hipocrisy.

Good luck pal. Good story.

aBlindGeminiWhisper · 2018-08-14T12:13:42+00:00

Found this place (the movement) when I was 20 yo, just a year ago, I was also on the monk mode for 2 years... I'm 21 yo right now and my parent's divorced a few months ago. This, really showed me the biggest picture.

Ipride362 · 2018-08-14T13:19:03+00:00

Divorce rate has been 50% for over 4 decades. Two whole generations have grown up with divorce, showing how love does not exist.

By the next generation, all men will be MGTOW

Shimakaze4 · 2018-08-14T13:06:02+00:00

For me I saw just how nasty my mothers family was to my dad, who is a pretty good person. Saw all this shit as a kid has made me never want to get married and after my mid 20s, I've given up on women entirely. They are trouble and just too much of a fucking headache to deal with their shit.

StoneTempleFlyboy · 2018-08-14T13:20:17+00:00

I learned about mgtow in 2004, yes 2004, 14 years ago. It's amazing dudes are still coming into this as if they are they only one. Still, way more awareness now than then.

cobaltcolander · 2018-08-14T14:36:54+00:00

I always knew somehow that a girl will use me.

You're wise beyond your years.

throwawaynt5757 · 2018-08-14T15:00:03+00:00

To be honest I feel stupid for actually wanting a relationship so much and only finding out about mgtow in my late 20's. Really wish I never spent so much time and emotions on women. Never really had girls flirt with me much or whatever else that many people had. Only have 1 relationship and that was a short one when I was younger. Not many relationships with friends either. Though I have never thrown others under the bus for le puss and trying hard for relationships/friends, just feels bad having wasted so much time on it and not really getting much out of it. At least I found it now I guess. Will start focusing a lot more on myself than others.

2018-08-14T15:20:08+00:00

I would say that having sex is awesome and definitely an experience that you should consider incorporating into your life - unless you truly want to go Monk.

Just protect yourself, always depend only on yourself and not anyone else for that. Don't live together, don't get married. That way you're still happy, you're having fun while your young. And the more sex you have the less women can use it against you because it really becomes no big deal.

If one woman is trying to manipulate you through sex you can just get it from someone else.

Anyway, lot of MGTOW having sex out there, something to consider for yourself. Try it and see what you think, at least.

IconicMen · 2018-08-14T16:14:18+00:00

Hey great to hear, and thanks for sharing. It's great to discover this type of environment where guys are trying to figure things out, and to have the space to propose ideas and be wrong (or right) about concepts. Really appreciate the jokes, the depth, the darkness that others share, as it shows we're not alone.

EconomistMagazine · 2018-08-14T19:05:00+00:00

To all the young guys out there: stay safe. If you're under 25 your sex drive might be all you can think about. That's normal and ok. You should do whatever you need to do and more feel guilty about it.

Reach out to older members of this sub for guidance if you need help. We have all been there. Be very careful about "sticking your dick in crazy" because these days bitches be crazy.

StraightCopHomie · 2018-08-15T09:46:02+00:00

I’m 20 and have always felt this way, but none of my friends have the same way of thinking so I thought I was the only one. I’m so glad I stumbled upon this thread. I’m 6’3” and pretty muscular from lifting a lot, and I’ve always had girls flirt with me but for even though some were hot I never wanted a relationship with them. I’m glad to see be among like-minded people and can’t wait to begin my life journey guilt-free and my way.

Title	I thought i was the only one who was "MGTOW"
Author	tempacciguess
Upvotes	122
Comments	44
Date	August 14, 2018 9:05 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/976swd/i_thought_i_was_the_only_one_who_was_mgtow/
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MenToo - you thots touch us up too, so enough of the hipocrisy.