Girlfriend and I have been together for a year now. We aren’t living together but have made plans to move in after our leases expire.
Her friend Alyssa was over at my apartment with her boyfriend and some other people. I was talking to Alyssa one on one and my girlfriend was in ear shot of us.
We were talking about some topic and it came to Europe and she told me that they slept with a bunch of super hot guys. It seemed that everyone tuned in then. I laughed it off and didn’t make it into a big deal.
We talked later and I asked her about what happened when she went to Europe. She had previously told me that she only been with three guys.
Long story short she and her friend when they went to Europe would sleep with a hot local guy every city.
It changed a lot of things about my perception of my girlfriend. She really tried to push this image on how she isn’t like other girls that sleep around. When we saw each other she didn’t even want to sleep with me for three months until we were official. And now hearing how she slept with guys hours after meeting them bugs the hell out of me.
Also before I felt that we were on equal footing dating experience wise. Now I’m realizing she has a ton more than I do and it makes me feel uneasy. That too and just the types of guys she went for.
Also it tells me there is a lot she is likely lying about too, if she lied about this. I don’t think Europe is the first place she slept around. I didn’t tell her this but it’s on my mind.
I don’t know it feels like for me, that she was someone that had her fun and now doesn’t want to do much now that she is in a relationship. I before just thought she was a reserved person but now it’s more like is she just reserved with me?
I am not planning on breaking up, but honestly it is putting a lot of doubts in my head. I am at the very least thinking of holding off on us moving in together. Am I making too much of this?
tl;dr - found out information about my girlfriend now thinking of breaking up
[–]painpainmorepain43 points44 points45 points (4 children) | Copy Link
I remember when my blue pilled brain cared about this shit and the anguish of insecurity and jealously. Now I don’t give a shit, not my problem. All that relationship drama and bullshit of the past feels like an alternate universe these days.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
That's because you are in a secure position. You have the high ground. Nobody can fuck you with you.
[–]MoneyOverHoes38 points9 points10 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Same here man. Even reading stuff like this used to bother me. Now I’m monk mode going on 3 years and it doesn’t faze me at all.
[–]da_kochevnik4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
5000 upvotes for being the only guy on the internet to use the correct spelling for 'faze'.
[–]FutureSquall25 points26 points27 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Aaaaaand the knights locked the thread to protect m'lady. They're starting to get trigger happy.
[–]blisfulcounterstroke 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"The peasants are pointing out what a filthy whore OP's is. What should we do, White Knights?!?!"
"....Lock it down. Shut them up."
[–]ivoryhawk 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
HAHAHAHA that was the first thing I noticed. The "Tentative lock" of oh fuck truth is spreading better shut it down
[–]r1chten18 points19 points20 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Always multiply there admitted count by 3.
[–]deadBeefCafe201412 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
So what he thought was 9 is at least 100.
[–]RevolutionaryPea70 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
If she travels on her own you can multiply it by 10.
[–]deathtocontrollers11 points12 points13 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Europe was just her second campaign of cock carousel riding... The guy should dump her like a sack of shit.
[–]Kestral 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Douche Vulva
[–]thearmchairwarrior9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He is the guy she is settling for. While chad cocks she drops pants literally on the same day. He had to wait months poor bastard!
[–]Drawrtist1237 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Not breaking up after she cheated? Holy fuck. He gets whatever happens to him in the future. :/
[–]shadowrealms4 points [recovered] | Copy Link
sleeping with everyone around europe brings new meaning to whoring around lol.
A bit more than cheating to me.
[–]theoracleofosiris5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Her past doesn’t matter you incel, she chose you! 😏
[–]DWShimoda6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
You misspelled "Pathetic."
[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
My sisters body count is 500
[–]Your_Coke_Dealer2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh yeah? Well my sister is number four prostitute in all of Kazakhstan
[–]blisfulcounterstroke 4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Slowly but surely, the image of the demure, submissive, honorable woman is washed away. Leaving only the realization that it never existed in the first place; we created it.
[–]Touch_It_Boi1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Our own projection
[–]Global_MGTOW3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
How can anyone love the continents bicycle? This relationship is over, he's just not ready to admit it to himself.
[–]Sneakybobo1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Alyssa revealed the secret
[–]AllureFX1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
comments are nice/encouraging to see TBH. I remember when that sub was so ass backwards. Good to see guys are waking up and showing more spine at least
[–]rochesterjones0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah so?
[–]13GOLGO13 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Hes a fucking fool, no sympathy. Even bluepillers have more sense.
[–]pingpongdong100 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
lol, what makes you think she stopped sleeping around, AWALT