Girl I had started dating turned out to have BPD. She turned into an absolute nutter, and broke up with me. Two weeks later I hear from her.

andrewscool101 · 2018-08-01T09:02:52+00:00

So yeah, this really happened. I had a short relationship with a girl who was pregnant with her ex’s baby and had BPD, which she lied about how it affected her.
We had a chat, and she continued to blame ME for the things I did wrong. Physco. In the end I was just like fuck you I did everything for you.
Now I’m MGTOW and happy.

Edit: Forgot to add, it’s not mine. We hadn’t had sex yet.

DecksDark99 · 2018-08-01T11:26:15+00:00

Immediately block her in the phone and all social accounts

casra888 · 2018-08-01T13:51:50+00:00

Watch out for them borderlines. They WILL ruin your life.

Be careful

MobySnoby · 2018-08-01T16:38:42+00:00

Dating someone with BPD was actually one of the best things that could happen to me.

Nothing will build up your stoicism, nonchalance and shit testing ability like dating someone who’s so unstable and emotionally intense that they change moods every thirty minutes.

After she ended it (she didn’t actually end it mind you, just split) with me I was broken for a good two months and experienced true heartbreak but since then I’ve grown an incredible amount and dealing with average girls is now a walk in the park

Saw her for the first time in almost three months a few days ago and it was amazing seeing how broken & infantile she is from a fresh, non rose tinted perspective. Now I genuinely just pity her and every guy she will make a fool out of.

Also she mentioned she’s currently fucking the guy she told me not to worry about and I suprisingly didn’t feel anything about it. Every red flag or paranoid thought I ever had about her turned out to be true. What’s hilarious is that shes mentioned to me and others in our friendship group is that she’s bored of him and is finding fault in numerous aspects of his lifestyle so she’s going to ditch him soon. (BPD’s are like parasites, they feed you up with all this intense infatuation and once they’re done they finish you off and leave you rotting)

Now I compromise on nothing, wont settle for an erratic psychotic hoe no matter how hot she is and haven’t been as infatuated with a women since.

zucine · 2018-08-01T11:10:15+00:00

What is BPD?

hex1984 · 2018-08-01T10:43:43+00:00

Probably not yours xD

andrewscool101 · 2018-08-01T13:12:42+00:00

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MesaBoogeyMan · 2018-08-01T13:47:58+00:00

Block and walk

jkarovskaya · 2018-08-01T12:59:38+00:00

I'm hoping that she's not lying, and that you're not the father

If you did dodge this bullet, you're very fortunate

casra888 · 2018-08-01T13:24:59+00:00

bi polar disorder is the phrase they prefer to narcissistic personality disorder. But, 99%of the time, if they claim to be bi polar, they are psychotically narcissists. The problem is, if the medical community was honest with them, they would lose almost all of the patients. So, they lie to collect money.

Learn this well! WOMEN WANT TO BE LIED TO AND TO NEVER HEAR THE TRUTH!

cycloneous · 2018-08-01T13:35:30+00:00

Lawyer up and demand a paternity test!!!!!

FemaleIsEasyMode · 2018-08-01T16:01:59+00:00

Save all conversations related to not having sex and how the kid is not yours. She puts your name as the father on the birth certificate and you will have to fight that

2018-08-01T17:39:33+00:00

DAMN , monk mode: ON

nomoregouge · 2018-08-01T15:40:05+00:00

Block and run.

hollybegin · 2018-08-01T18:12:09+00:00

Her problems, not yours. Wish her good luck, cut all contacts and gyow. You obviously dodged a serious bullet.

Atton_Risk · 2018-08-01T14:42:37+00:00

Use stainless steel condoms and a vasectomy.

CodeDaniel · 2018-08-01T17:57:10+00:00

Care she can ruin your Life!

Care... Block her asap

andrewscool101 · 2018-08-01T19:21:22+00:00

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Mephitus · 2018-08-02T04:52:59+00:00

Relevant post: https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/90rd2w/when_you_find_out_she_has_bpd/

SupremeAuthority · 2018-08-02T02:42:15+00:00

I bet she bought this off craigslist for 20 dollars.

Title	Girl I had started dating turned out to have BPD. She turned into an absolute nutter, and broke up with me. Two weeks later I hear from her.
Author	andrewscool101
Upvotes	104
Comments	53
Date	August 1, 2018 9:00 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/93nbqp/girl_i_had_started_dating_turned_out_to_have_bpd/
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