MGTOW+RELATIONSHIP

re_all · 2018-10-27T16:18:53+00:00

(What you think you are saying)

I am doing very well for myself. I have my own goals, my own life, I even have a woman on the side that I give a little left-over free time to, so I can also have companionship! I have it all! But- I know that it is possible to overlook things, so how do I avoid the toxic part of relationships?

(What you are doing)

Hey everyone! I like to play with fire! It is really fun! You know what's even more fun? Dousing yourself with diesel fuel and playing with fire! What's that you say? I can get burned?

Nah- didn't you know that diesel doesn't combust like gasoline does? See? It's safe! I'm good. Now- what I'm concerned about is getting burned badly. How do I avoid this?

Here is the simple, but unbelievable truth to the situation.

You're gonna get burned. And when you do, no one can save you... and if you do not get burned to a crisp- you got lucky.

There are people here who will say "just don't marry" or "pump-n-dump" but there is a flaw to that theory. They too are playing with fire!

Now, just because you didn't get burned the first time, or even the thirty first time- all it takes is one moment of stupidity or petty vindictiveness, and you will suffer a lifetime of misery.

How do you avoid this? It is so simple; avoid as much as you can!

You cannot avoid the manipulation.

You cannot avoid the cheating.

You cannot keep control of the relationship.

If you are still too stubborn to let go of this woman, your question would be better served asking it in r/theredpill

You have to get past their quarantine, but a google search will get you there. And once there, you will get the same advice.

Lift, bro!

Hold frame, bro!

Treat em like crap- they love that, brah!

Gotta-buy-muh-pick-up-artist-lessons-brev!

Best of luck to you, good sir.

Ludakrit · 2018-10-27T16:39:19+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

2018-10-27T16:19:43+00:00

Well you can as long you always put yourself first and don't leave your projects and hobbies behind because of her... I think your relationships may not last too much bcoz they eventually try to leech all you have starting with your money (by asking you to pay stuff, some help maybe to pay a bill she is struggling due her poor financial habilities to save money), then make you leave your friends and finally abandon your projects to give her full time attention...

When you see those red flags I think it's time for you to leave and find another...

Here are some tips:

*Never accept comdons from women, I've seen cases where they put holes to try to get pregnant...

*Be careful how you thorw your comdons away. They even try to put the condom in the pussy to try to get pregnant.

*I'd use audio recorders to record her consentment to avoid future headaches

If you gonna play with fire, at least be careful not to get burned.

Oilguy94 · 2018-10-27T16:21:25+00:00

MGTOW doesn’t condemn people who choose to be in a relationship, just be aware that if the women you decide to be with happens to find someone better than you, she will leave.

And then if you come to MGTOW asking where did I go wrong? We can only shake our heads, & say I told you so.

MGTOW is more pre-dominantly of men who want to go our own way without the chains & bindings of a relationship, & marriage, & female nature. We’re just biologically disposable. Which I find really funny.

Mex_Heroin · 2018-10-27T16:25:00+00:00

MGTOW is basically about education and awareness.

Understand that women are masters of manipulation. They will not take responsibility for their actions and will try to make you the bad guy. Educate yourself on the behavior of women (and men). Learn what a "shit test" is and watch out for them. Always pay attention. Every interaction you have with her, always pay attention to what she says, how she says it, and especially her body language. Never let your guard down.

You can not avoid any cheating on her part. If (when) she decides to cheat there is nothing you can do to prevent it. Nothing. Understand that now. Also, if you decide to cheat there is nothing she can do to prevent it. It's only what happens after that you have a say about what happens.

Use the principles of Risk Management to decide the worth of a relationship.

Risk management is basically a process of identifying, assessing, and controlling risks and making decisions that balance risk costs with benefits.

It's for you to decide if the benefits outweigh the risks.

battle_of_homme · 2018-10-27T17:25:35+00:00

AskTRP

Vaxel00 · 2018-10-27T18:32:12+00:00

Just don't get attached.

You have to internalize the fact that you're not going to keep her, get what you want and when the time comes let her leave.

Never cohabitate, never marry, never give her children.

Badthrowaway2928 · 2018-10-27T18:59:49+00:00

You may want to head to TRP for all that. Just know you're in a time sink. It can happen to you anytime. Just know that

user_miki · 2018-10-27T16:57:09+00:00

Focus on yourself...... always.Make yourself the center of your thoughts, and be honest. Don't try to please anybody.

eduardkoopman · 2018-10-27T17:55:40+00:00

How can I avoid the manipulation/cheating on me and keep the control of the relationship ?

You need magic, to with 100% certainty control someone else their behaviour and perceptions.
irl, you can't control someone to not manipulate or cheat on you, that other person can only chose not to do that. You have little say in what another person does.

PubliusVirgilius · 2018-10-27T19:31:29+00:00

It may be possible to have a red pilled relarionship, but the energy and effort that you need invest into it, in order to dominate it and the dangers involved are not worth it.

Its like getting a wild animal as a pet and hope it wont bite.

DannyNog556 · 2018-10-28T00:24:50+00:00

You will think you have everything under control until you get sperm jacked or falsely accused of rape or assault. The ONLY way to be in control of your life is to GYOW! Letting a female into your life is like pulling the pin on a grenade and putting it in your pocket... MGTOW+Relationships CANNOT exist on the same plane. There are no unicorns and there is no such thing as Love. You’ve been warned... GYOW brother!

tramese · 2018-10-28T02:00:04+00:00

ignore everything she says.

davvya · 2018-10-28T11:41:38+00:00

" How can I avoid the manipulation/cheating on me and keep the control of the relationship ? "

you can't. she will want control and if you don't give it to her, she'll cheat on you and leave. if you give her the control she'll cheat on you and you'll be emotionally crushed, then one of you will break it off. come on mate, open your eyes

Title	MGTOW+RELATIONSHIP
Author	niewieeeedee
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	October 27, 2018 4:00 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9rvc8z/mgtowrelationship/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/mgtowrelationship.516612 https://theredarchive.com/post/516612

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