I'm someone who used to identify as incel but have since changed and adopted a MGTOW mindset. AMA

JohnBravo9990 · 2018-07-30T01:06:20+00:00

Probably good. MGTOW seems more positive and offers a philosophical way to win an unwinnable game.

You know, I was a big fat stud back in college. The girls were lining up to fuck me.

And I couldn’t keep any.

They want money for that. Big lesson realizing you’re being used. You guys should realize that men are all screwed, unless they are rich, and assholes, and they still might be fucked.

But there has never been a rich asshole who can’t get laid.

Buy some prostitutes and end the mystique if you have to. That might be necessary! But remember there are all types around here. We’re all sick of this shit.

vladm007 · 2018-07-30T01:31:21+00:00

Very smart. Incels keep saying all girls are feminist manipulative whores but they still dream of relationships with them.

IntrovertedMagma · 2018-07-30T01:18:00+00:00

Good for you man! I love the incel sub, bros over there are funny and smart.

I wish they stop putting WAHMYN on a pedestal.. I understand they want an intimate relationship and a family, but it is not their fault we live in a shit society with unrestrained hypergamy.

Good luck bro!

throwaway5897822 · 2018-07-30T00:58:27+00:00

Do you have $100? You can have sex.

throwaway5897822 · 2018-07-30T00:58:09+00:00

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Docbear64 · 2018-07-30T01:03:03+00:00

I feel like many men have a hard time getting into the mind of an Incel , could you explain what your perspective of women and yourself was?

gifm4ster · 2018-07-30T03:52:40+00:00

Hey. First I would like to say good for you man. I wish you nothing but the best in your pursuit to escape from self loathing and negativity.

You’ve chosen the best path for yourself and it’ll get better from here. Would love to hear from you maybe in 3 months from now or a year, stating the kinds of positive changes (or any kind) since GYOW.

Sorry this is gonna be kinda long. Appreciate it if you actually read through everything:

Incels are fascinating because I can understand the pain that they are going through but what’s more interesting is their way of dealing with the pain. Since this is an AMA:

I think incels are made up of people who have the same mindset as those we ridicule in this sub. Meaning people who have this weird entitlement in their heads judging from what I’ve gathered about them thus far.

Of course not talking about you since you’ve woken up and chose to walk the path of self improvement and doing whatever the hell you want, making your life yours.

Do you agree with what I’ve stated? The thing about playing the “game” is that guys gotta understand that it’s a skill that needs to be honed. Like playing a video game. Particularly a souls game. And I see incels as people like DSP who rage quits and blames the game, blames the dev and everything else other than themselves.

And obviously not putting in the effort to improve themselves in any way to beat that final boss.

Because I wanna tell these people, actually being in a relationship is really the worst part and they are better off being single. The pain that could bring is a lot worse than being rejected. Much worse. Ever had someone betray you? Rip your heart straight from your chest and step on it and spit on it?

Only so many people can get so lucky. Not everyone is. That’s just the nature of this world. The best you could do is realise this fact and work with your strengths.

Congrats if you made it this far.

Anonymoose_wrex · 2018-07-30T01:26:20+00:00

First off, welcome!

Second, now that you are free to enjoy your life, what is first on the agenda? Besides this thread I mean.

2018-07-30T04:40:23+00:00

It's either betabuxing or mgtow.

The former has the risk of divorce because them alpha widow one fine day wakes up and realizes she 'deserves better'.

Daedalus_of_Utah · 2018-07-30T01:37:18+00:00

Why do you think it is that incels as a movement are vilified recently? I understand wholly why MGTOW is; it's unapologetic in its diagnosis of women, and can seem to ideologues to be misogynistic. But Incels traditionally in my experience, have been treated with pity, and sometimes compassion. But lately they seem to be treated as Elliot Roger incarnate. Why?

magx01 · 2018-07-30T05:08:16+00:00

It's not your own way if there's no other choice. However, if you are becoming more at peace mentally then that's the important part and kudos to you.

KosherMGTOW · 2018-07-30T08:45:14+00:00

Why haven't you ever considered a prostitute?

brother_dreadly · 2018-07-30T12:45:33+00:00

Whatever your attachments, ideologies, or beliefs -- a man will always be a man; and, any men are welcome here.

Have any hobbies?

Plazmatron44 · 2018-07-30T12:52:09+00:00

There are people that say mgtow are just incels that have decided to take their ball home with them, but since many mgtow have been married and had success with women that's untrue. While I myself have had virtually no success with women and am invisible to them my going my own way is down to learning about women and deciding the juice isn't worth the squeeze. If ever I get desperate over my virginity I can take a trip to the Netherlands, something many incels could never bring themselves to do since they need female validation, once you're mgtow you don't need that so it is pretty liberating.

Freenorthman · 2018-07-30T10:32:29+00:00

If you could Not get laid even if you wanted to you are Not going your own way. You are forced into this life so still an incel

Title	I'm someone who used to identify as incel but have since changed and adopted a MGTOW mindset. AMA
Author	throwaway5897822
Upvotes	52
Comments	39
Date	July 30, 2018 12:54 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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