How do you stop yourself from caring about what women think?

Most_Insane_F2P · 2017-12-18T22:41:05+00:00

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0x123d · 2017-12-18T22:38:57+00:00

The best way to stop giving a fuck is to get a FWB/LTR and experience the worthlessness of female validation firsthand. If that isn't attainable, simply observe their behavior. Once you fully comprehend the depths of their depravity, you will stop valuing their opinions.

Effortless_Grace · 2017-12-19T00:07:35+00:00

Hit the gym. Meditate. Learn about money and investing. Most importantly, observe their behavior through the lens of your new knowledge about their behavior.

Emanresu_rouy_esoohc · 2017-12-18T22:37:05+00:00

You have to self-actualize yourself. It sounds like, your identity is chained to the opinion of other people.

Look at the sidebar -> Youtube -> huMAN

He has great videos that can help you, to find the things in your life that really matter.

Neoshining · 2017-12-18T22:40:26+00:00

If she's not saying something that builds you up or puts money in your pocket, then it has no value at all. You need to see them for the shallow, insecure, truly unknowing creatures they are.

ocaptainmyadversary · 2017-12-18T23:56:37+00:00

Get into a serious relationship. You'll see how goddamned often they need validation for every petty thought they have. You'll want nothing more than to never be that to another person.

betternotsettle · 2017-12-19T00:24:29+00:00

Unless you're Mentallo or Professor X, you have no conception of what people think about you. It is ONLY your projection of your own short-comings. So, what you must do is realize that everyone is flawed, and then work on the things about yourself that you know you can improve.

When I was in College, I would always play out scenarios in my head...thinking that those Thots actually entertained thoughts about me...they did NOT. They do not care about any particular man, unless he has ripped out their heart and stomped it into the dirt, and then they will LOVE him forever.

If you assume they don't think, you could become Chad, but is that what you really want? The juice is NOT worth the squeeze.

Chad is a mindset. You simply have to give ZeroFucks about anything, never spend money on a woman, and generally treat them like peasants and they will FAWN all over you.

Being sarcastic and contrarian help too. Women love being around men that they can't win an argument with...because their general self-worth is less than a worm's.

When a woman DOES call you out of the blue, saying she was "thinking of you," she's really thinking of:

a) How much you can spend on her going out...or

b) getting fucked by one of the men on her list (guess it's YOUR turn!)

El---Rey · 2017-12-19T00:11:55+00:00

I know my own value and purpose for existence.

No woman or other man can validate me.

monty93 · 2017-12-18T23:05:42+00:00

Masturbation. If you aren't in need of sex, what value have a woman's opinion on you? Also, try starting by ignoring men's opinion first in case it is easier.

weebkilla · 2017-12-19T00:15:25+00:00

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062457713/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_-NfoAbZR0KKDX

batshttcrazy · 2017-12-19T01:02:19+00:00

Begin a list of critic's you respect and benefit from the advice they give. Keep adding everyone you meet to that list and see where "women" eventually end up at...

MadPreacher1AD · 2017-12-19T01:36:38+00:00

Just stop caring.

Redpillsaregood · 2017-12-19T18:51:50+00:00

You have false beliefs about yourself, or you wouldn't be effected. Try having no opinion of yourself. If you identify as anything or anyone, such as job, race, religion etc. Then you are easy to disrupt and anyone can effect your day. It isn't easy to have no opinion, after all we have been conditioned from birth that we need to be "something". It won't happen overnight, but work on not having any opinion of yourself and when you finally get there you will be free and untouchable.

I should warn you, if you get there this will be very erotic to women. A women needs a man that isn't effected by the chaos of the world. Most men fail this and get upset soo easily. Don't forget the true knowledge of women, once you get there.

Couple weeks ago i saw a girl get her boyfriend upset at the gym, he wanted to look tough and yell at her but as she looked at me right after we both knew it was over. He was too easy for her to disrupt, how on earth was he going to take on the world in her mind if he is this easily disturbed.. He has been working out alone since.

PantsInBed · 2017-12-19T00:26:30+00:00

It's hard, but you'll get there if you want to. You need to expose yourself to negative judgement to become indifferent to it, it takes practice.

For example, if you can't exit your front door without looking fresh and well dressed, try going out like a couch potato once in a while and act like you don't care.

Ask yourself what value another person's perception of you have to you and your goals. If it doesn't have any value there is no reason to care.

Fyodor007 · 2017-12-19T03:00:55+00:00

Build your self esteem. Takes time, like anything that is worth anything. No one's opinion of you is personal. When you realize they are all projections and reflections they'll tell you more about others than they will about you.

DagonNaxos · 2017-12-19T05:34:59+00:00

Realizing that, unless you're in the top 20%, you don't even register on their radar. You're just background. So just do what you want. Get your skills up, make some money, get some hobbies. Bang some FWBs if you want or not. Just be safe about it.

Title	How do you stop yourself from caring about what women think?
Author	hindustan_zindabad_
Upvotes	21
Comments	17
Date	December 18, 2017 10:26 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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