Ok so I have had some horrible luck with women, I take them out, treat them well and seem to be getting no where. I got out of a long term relationship (8 years) about a year ago (i'm 29). I am pretty social, usually throw parties and like to be out doing things but I also hate doing stuff alone so I don't go out as much as I should (to meet women). The last few women I have dated either A, just wanted to be friends and "see" where it goes, which to me sounds like "I want you to take me out and pay for everything but I don't want to give you any emotion or sex" I feel bad for thinking that but in the end I know its true. B, they say I am too nice, so that means to me that they want to date someone that treats them poorly? I am at a loss, its been a year and this has been the longest I have ever gone without sex or a girlfriend.