My fiance and I have been friends for 8 years and dating for 3. At first it was great, but I am debating if I should move back home to FL where a large majority of my family is and I'm welcome to live with them.

I am disabled and only make 1k a month off of SSI. My issues are, I pay for her gas, made a majority of the monthly payments on her vehicle till it was paid off. I paid for her sister to not be evicted from her apartment twice. Meanwhile, shes put me in over 5k of debt. She went on Flexshopper (buy stuff online and make monthly payments) using my name and my social security number to buy me a brand new Xbox One X for my birthday last year even though i dont play video games much. She said she would make payments, and never did. I thought she was the entire time but I get a call from collections saying one payment was made but I still owe 2k on it. Even though i did not buy the system legally it's still in my name. We opened a joint bank account together, it mainly being in my name because of better credit. Not 2 months later it was $500 in the negative and sent to collections, and again, I was required to pay for it. I dont remember the rest of what debt she put me in but it is around 5k.

A few months back I was saving up for us to go visit my family in FL and one day we went out with her family. I come to find out she paid for everyone's meal, bought them stuff ($100) and paid for their gas using my debit card, meanwhile she works two jobs and makes a lot more than I do. I had to ask my grandfather and my mother's fiance for gas money because I had a feeling we couldnt make it back on the money we had. Then when we get back home she wanted me to make a $350 car payment because she was behind. I told her if she had not spent a majority of my check I was saving up for the trip on her family I wouldn't have to make the payment she is late on, but it didnt really do anything when I told her that.

Yes she has her own Bill's, and I understand you should help your spouse, but I think shes taking advantage of me. I have not been paid back for anything. When I ask her to buy me something she makes a big deal out of it.

2 years ago I got my first dog, a husky named Thor. At 4 months old he died in my arms. Ever since he died I wanted to get a tattoo in remembrance of him and any other dog I've ever loved. I got my tattoo last Friday. It cost $250. I paid for it myself but she gave me so much crap for it. Yes it was a lot of pain getting it but seeing the tattoo on my arm after thor died made me the happiest I've been in this 3 year relationship.

On a different note, let me explain the house I'm currently living in. Yes, I live here rent free, which I am grateful for, but there is something I despise, to the point I'd rather pay $500 out of my $1000 check in rent to not deal with it. My fiance and I live with her father. Hes got a bit of a hoarding issue. We have 7 dogs living with us. 2 pitbulls. Two Huskies (same litter as Thor) one Boxer, one weenerdog, and one pitbull puppy. I am the owner of one of the Huskies, Batman, I make sure he goes outside to go potty and he sleeps in his kennel at night. Have him 90% potty trained. However, the other 6 dogs can roam around the house and every morning or throughout periods of the day I'll walk around the house and slip in dog pee or do my best to avoid giant dog turds on the floor. It's really tiring and gross I have to get a mop bucket, fill it with bleach and hot water to clean up the dog pee and use a shovel to pick up dog turds nearly every day. I've tried to talk to her father about it but he wont do anything about it. He let's me live there rent free so I dont press the issue any further.