I'm currently near the end of my (last)LTR and I couldn't care less about it.
Context - (on mobile bear with me.)
My GF (or whatever we are) had somewhat of an agruement recently. Tuesday to be exact and after she walked away I proceeded with no contact.
On Thanksgiving I received a text saying how she was worried and asked if I needed time. Also that she was worried about how I was doing after ghosting.
I gave her a short: "We'll talk, need time." In response to her block of text
Well today we finally talked about what happened. She tried to gaslight but i wasn't having it. Told her what she did wrong and we both apologized.
So we hug and kiss and she says "we should stop, I'm confused about where we stand."
I tell her that it's up to her. She said if we don't work out she would still like to talk to me and I flat out told her
"I'll talk to you, but it won't be too deep. Professional." Everyone who knows me that means not much at all to never. She implies she would like to remain friends but i told her I don't want to be. She was absolutey offended and I said that it's stupid to be upset about not being talked to.
As she proceeded to leave she hit me with "If you want to see Justice Leauge, we can, it's up to you, maybe we shouldn't since you want to keep it professional."
I chuckled at her attempt to shame me. And told her to not use that againts me. I ask her "So are you implying that we won't work out."
She says "I don't know... Maybe we won't. I don't think we will."
"Fair enough."
She says she has to go do an errand and i look her in the eye and say "Okay."
She's upset that I stood up for myself and that I won't be a fall back plan. What ever happens, happens. I honestly don't care because I'll be happy and I'll continue to go my own way.
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I’m in a similar situation. I finally put my foot down and told my ex 2 weeks ago that she either had to stop being a lazy bitch or gtfo. 4 days later (she had to find the right branch to swing to first) she decided she would rather take the easy route (surprise surprise) and moved out. Now I’m happily single with a nice bachelor pad. So glad I found this sub. You guys save lives.
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