Views on adoption?

AllUpInYoGirl · 2018-06-30T19:32:17+00:00

beautiful concept. in one hand, it takes away the responsibility from the biological mother, which i disagree with. on the other, it is not the child's fault they were born into this world this way. my adopted child would learn about these things from me and hopefully contribute to a better world and fix the next few generations.

VanDriver1 · 2018-06-30T19:35:43+00:00

Personally, I have trouble taking care of myself so it's not for me. But It's probably one of the greatest things that a person can do in the grand scheme of things to give a small human being a stable home. Plus, I think you get a couple of check marks on that great list up in the sky next to your name.

AnonymousOlle · 2018-06-30T20:33:11+00:00

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2018-06-30T20:03:50+00:00

This isn’t an option for men. You’ll be totally discriminated again and not even allowed to adopt as a single man if not outright investigated for being a sexual predator.

aanarchist · 2018-06-30T19:46:58+00:00

Need more good parents raising kids who aren't worthless shits. I liken it to charity. Never be a cuck to a single mom but children on the other hand only good things happen when someone cares enough to be that parental figure they need in their formative years. Acts of good expand on each other, just like acts of evil. The more people choose to do acts of good the less room there is for evil to propagate itself.

Global_MGTOW · 2018-06-30T21:14:41+00:00

If you have the means, and you want to do it, the choice is up to you. If you're a single man who wants to adopt, good luck.

jeff_portnoy · 2018-06-30T19:34:59+00:00

Raising somebody else's kid. Dealing with all their emotional baggage of not knowing their real parents. The possibility when they turn 18 they'll say "k thanks" and go be with their biological parents. You have to keep them away from women because as soon as a whore does anything for the kid they'll go crying to the courts for custody and child support. And they'll win. Not worth it in my opinion

klim_milk · 2018-07-01T01:17:54+00:00

I'm for it, but it's not easy for capable men to adopt as it is for single women.

Hwga_lurker_tw · 2018-07-01T03:08:07+00:00

In survival situations, maybe. Other than that the biological imperative to push your own genes into the future is too strong.

laptopdragon · 2018-07-01T05:51:13+00:00

never, ever.

I was "adopted" and only learned regret, resentment, neglect, being despised, and basically a slave.

I had to chip in to support them. I grew up with 2 random older sisters who one was an utter bitch, the other was ok, but I had to earn $ since i was 12,and only to have it mostly stolen (I think by the oldest sister).

I have a firm understanding that no adopted parents could or would ever (unconditionally) love another.

in fact, (imo) most parents don't give 2 shits about their own (shitty) offspring.

I've only seen 3 families that had it, and it is obvious to me.

Adoptees only want to be seen and viewed from afar as some noble gesture and don't truly understand the half of it.

talk about trust issues, and abandonment issues... adoptees want so much to believe in it, be in a family, but it's nothing that can ever be faked.

I believe that if you can't naturally have a kid, you should never have one, unless it's your siblings that passed away or something.

2018-07-01T08:25:03+00:00

Personally, no way. Pay adoption fees out the ass to raise someone else's kid. You can already do that with a typical wife.

owninfools007 · 2018-07-01T14:19:58+00:00

Surrogate.

Title	Views on adoption?
Author	5c00ty
Upvotes	12
Comments	14
Date	June 30, 2018 7:22 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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