"Women are less happy than men in marriage" Thoughts

leftajar · 2018-11-05T17:16:02+00:00

Nope, the data is pretty clear: the happiest women are housewives with low partner counts.

This is why traditional masculine societies controlled the shit out of women's sexual behavior: if allowed to follow their instincts, most women will fuck themselves straight into unhappiness.

[deleted] · 2018-11-05T23:37:37+00:00

Because nowadays girls can taste alpha cock but statistically most cant end up with an Alpha long-term. There aren't enough of them. And betas are to girls what fat chicks are to men. Would you be happy if you woke up every morning next to a fat chick? No.

Psychological_Radish · 2018-11-05T18:08:24+00:00

Because the men don't excite them sexually, i.e. Beta Bucks. In other instances, the men started off Alpha but end up losing Frame or falling into a boring, repetitive life routine. Women hate boredom more than anything else. You always have to remain the "man that other men want to be, and other women want to fuck."

Getting with the 80% Alpha 20% Beta (the "lesser Alpha" or "Alpha Bucks") who remains exciting is a lottery that most women will never win.

whisper72052 · 2018-11-06T00:12:17+00:00

Women go into marriage with higher expectations so their degree of disappointment with the reality is greater. Denying red flags and forging ahead despite obvious incompatibilities in the futile hope that he will change are a recipe for guaranteed marital misery. The intense desire for family and children often overshadows and subverts his glaring personality and behavioral flaws, which she---after-the-fact---can no longer ignore. Lack of communication and dishonesty during courtship further contributes to disillusionment with marriage. Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.

UnluckyPenguin · 2018-11-05T18:39:39+00:00

Do you agree?

Happiness is subjective (and temporary) as opposed to internal peace or joy, and women are experts at living in the moment. So naturally - yeah, I guess women are less happy than men, but they are also more happy than men.

Why do you think this is?

Less happiness isn't the issue, it's just a correlation to deeper problems. You can generally tell who has a happy marriage after spending a handful of hours with the couple and seeing their interactions.

It's pretty clear that married women who give off the vibe that they are DTF, are less happy in their marriage, because they are used to riding the CC. They don't feel the strong biological bond that forms when a woman has a low N count.

On the other hand, married women who enjoy cleaning (maybe even consider it relaxing) - they are happier in their marriage.

Lastly, in my personal opinion, it comes down to two things that go back to biblical times:

Men should love their wives.
Women should submit to their husbands.

Those morals are pretty solid, but with the rise of western culture - women stopped submitting to their husbands.

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-11-06T02:20:33+00:00

If you focus on how many choices you have instead of focusing on what your responsibilities are, you're going to have a bad time.

Title	"Women are less happy than men in marriage" Thoughts
Author	Kevin19Fish
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Date	November 5, 2018 4:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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