Twice ive been branch swung on and it hurts my ego

horologist2018 · 2018-11-07T20:41:24+00:00

Sorry about your pain, brother man.

Women, in general, do not factor in the past for their current decisions. Remember that.

Lots of us have been through the same thing, including me.

Not to take away from your story: I was with my ex wife for 8 years, bought a house, had a dog, bought her new cars, great sex life; best fucking friends! We literally got compliments all the time on how perfect of a couple we were; which we absolutely were. It was almost weird just how in sync we were. Then all of the sudden out of no where, found out she was having an affair with this dude. This ugly fuck with fucked up teeth, small lips, badly negative canthal tilt eyes, genuinely stupid as fuck man, too. The bitch ended up marrying him. Now, 5 years later, I know she's miserable (she's told me; we have kids together so we still talk). So hey, there's that.

Anyway. Long story short: I had to just get over it. I knew about the PUA scene, so I got into that reading. That helped, a lot. One of my first FWB helped me throw away all of my clothes, get a whole new wardrobe, took better care of myself, redecorated my entire house. Since discovering TRP (which a FWB girl introduced me to, believe it or not), I hit the gym, changed my game up (which I already had a solid foundation from PUA education), and have been improving.

Those are wounds that will never fully heal. Learn to make them beneficial scars. You got this.

How do you get over this? Find what works best for you. Above is what worked for me. But everyone is different, man.

BrutalMan420 · 2018-11-07T20:35:04+00:00

youre probably too needy man. in a relationship you need to constantly remind yourself your turn could be over next week. or tomorrow. sometimes you might go a week without thinking about this and then it pops back into your head and youll snap out of zombie mode like “oh yeah, its just my turn.” dont get too attached.

if youre sitting here lamenting your ex’s and feeling something like heartbreak you were probaby too attached and probably displayed it to them thus repelling them

just a hunch

derrtderr · 2018-11-07T21:32:37+00:00

Nope. You’re too arrogant. Too valuable? Pushing her sexual limits? Top 20%?

No. You’re just another deckhand bud.

Oneitis goes both ways apparently.

[deleted] · 2018-11-07T20:42:43+00:00

Let go of the idea that she belonged to you.

They are never yours, only your turn.

UnluckyPenguin · 2018-11-08T00:38:34+00:00

Am i too valuable ?

No.

im fucking dumbfounded

You have a loooooong way to go. Probably need to start back at TRP basics 101 and learn everything over.

I've had a chick leave me for some loser (physically/mentally), guy had a lisp, living at home with his parents, driving a beat up truck, making 12$/hour. What he did have that I didn't: He loved burning his cash on her, buying her 300$ worth of stuffed animals, and just submitting to her every whim. I was upset at first, but a week later I was extremely thankful to be away from that gold digger. As expected, she still tried to keep in touch with me after, but that ship had sailed.

Moral of the story: In a crazy world, it's the sane people who are weird. Sometimes girls want a mega-beta, they live completely in the moment. Don't get too invested because women can change men more than they change underwear.

If you want a girl to love you, make sure you love her less than she loves you.

PM_ME_UR_1ITIS_SNAP · 2018-11-07T20:39:46+00:00

Can't force people to like you. You said that you don't care that they swung so that should be the end of it.

[deleted] · 2018-11-07T20:41:49+00:00

ur almost def doing something wrong. figure out what it is lol then correct it

mrHappyPotatoe · 2018-11-07T20:58:01+00:00

Snowflake syndrome.

EZemm · 2018-11-08T02:04:37+00:00

"She will always leave you."

[deleted] · 2018-11-08T03:10:19+00:00

Women are a by product of success not success in itself. Worry about your mission, not about some dime a dozen thot.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-11-08T16:52:52+00:00

I am literally on top of the world right now in building value and being valuable. More than most men id say top 20% forsure.

That sentence disqualifies you from that 20% because any guy in that category wouldn't give a fuck, he has a roster.

You are not to valuable.

Title	Twice ive been branch swung on and it hurts my ego
Author	throwinghthisoneaway
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	November 7, 2018 8:28 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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