Which is your story? What made you become MGTOW (please include as much details as you want, I am genuine curious)?

theorymeltfool · 2018-06-20T02:52:12+00:00

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Chyusuru · 2018-06-20T03:52:46+00:00

Ex cheated on me after taking advantage of me and lying to my face. Planned on joining the military and mentioned it to her and she went on this convo saying how I was going to murder innocent people and she couldn’t deal with me leaving on deployments, even after being with her for quite a while. Back then I was kind of naive. Didn’t realize for a month she was cheating on me, probably because I didn’t want to believe she was. It started with lies, about going places, talking to the guy (as cliché as it sounds) she told me not to worry about, those types of things; I tried to brush it off and give benefit of the doubt. I cared for her as my father taught me, and I respected her and every person as I would have seen myself be treated. Not the cringe worthy white knight respect, but valuing the other person as a human being. She of course cheated on me after a shaky period. Some time passed, I kept beating myself up about it since I felt it was my fault that entire ordeal happened, I was emotionally attached. Funny part is, I’m medically incapable of joining the military, psoriasis kept me from Air Force and army, and that’s her biggest motive I would assume for her actions. Best friend told me to get back into the game, so I talked to a woman not too far from my residence. Thought I would start with clean slate. Turns out she had no interest in a relationship and led me on for physical reasons, just liked to play games. I cut her off, and half a year later, a friend tells me about r/MGTOW, being a “cancerous community.” I looked into it and that description is totally wrong. Unlike other pages, I don’t find justification here like women tend to give each other in their emotionally driven arguments and conversations. Kind of was awakened to the fact that it’s okay to not want a relationship and not want to marry, despite the social norms telling us men to do that in order to “be happy.” My mother often asks when I’m gonna get another partner or talk to someone else; I tell her not anytime soon or never- and she replies with “you’re gonna be lonely and live a sad life.” But isn’t life what you make it? Why would I be lonely and sad having nobody to drag me down and nobody to possibly do the same to me all over again? I read posts for entertainment and almost like news, I enjoy seeing what other me are succeeding in going their own way.

Melvin_Udall33 · 2018-06-20T04:11:46+00:00

The super short version- married, dead bedroom, she slept with Chad (literally his name was Chad, which is actually funny to me now), took her back for the sake of the kids, she crawled deeper into the bottle, I finally found an ounce of pride and left.

I bet 80% of the posters here over 30 have a similar story.

Warner420 · 2018-06-20T04:52:05+00:00

Have been with 21 women, only two girlfriends. For the longest time I thought that I was commitment phobic or my standards were too high but i eventually learned that women nowadays are garbage and i was just protecting myself. Now im becoming a monk

ArmondDillo · 2018-06-20T03:18:28+00:00

Unicorns aren't real, so why bother.

The government sticking their nose in things doesn't help matters.

It's lose-lose.

2018-06-20T05:58:48+00:00

I was fed up with wasting my time as emotional tampoon and provider. If I needed support (e.g. after falling ill), she was angry with me. How dare you are ill. She didn’t say that, but she behaved like it. In summary, AWALT. After two dozens of relationships, I gave up on them. Needed 42 years to understand the issue.

I’m hoping for my gender colleagues that MGTOW is helping them in realising the worth of themselves compared to wives and girlfriends. Know your value! Women don’t know it. Don’t ask them!

2018-06-20T06:23:27+00:00

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Isurvivedafeminist · 2018-06-20T08:59:10+00:00

5 long relationships all near the 2 year or over mark where every single one of them cheated. It didint matter if they were nerdy, shy and relatively unattractive they all cheated, honestly i found that the closer they got to being 5's the quicker they cheated which surprised me, evertime i dated hotter and hotter chicks and it took them longer to cheat. I find it hilarious that without fail they are all fat, have multiple kids and shit husbands now with most of them being abusive and cheating on them. I think of it as karma for treating me bad. I found my answer to how terrible women are after those women. Ive been told " women arent all the same" most of my friends during my life have been women, i was a total blue pilled simp, the amount of girls in my friends griup tgat were cheating and told me was massive atleast 95% of them. I figure all of them cheated, and im using the same criteria they use to define cheating because those bitches should be held to the same standards!

Nkazio · 2018-06-21T02:28:53+00:00

It goes down like a checklist;

Early Childhood;

Raised by single Mother who was constantly absent.
Bullied at School by Females in early years.
(Which is what nested 'distrust' against Women in general).

Early Adulthood;

-Worked in Security, lived with what people would call a 'full blown Chad' in a shared Apartment. Got to Witness first hand since the age of 18 just how much Women are willing to lie and degrade themselves to get Chad-Dick.

i.e: his Girlfriend lived with us for a while, Chad came home with another Gal, proceeded to fuck her in the bedroom while the Girlfriend was on the couch crying. Girlfriend got kicked out, proceeded to chase Chad for 2 Weeks professing love).

2nd example; The literal train of whores that will suck a security guards dick just for backstage access and other goodies.

I was lucky in that I saw Women behave like absolute whores since my earliest years, so I always knew the 'hollywood/disney' romance was a big fat lie.

For personal experiences with Chicks; Girls getting with me to get access to my social Circle, Girls professing eternal love while rebounding with their ex on the side, Girls acting like christian prudes only to have trains run on them when drunk by your average dolts with a 'bad boy' edge. (Bad Boy edge meaning Club Promoters who sniffs Cocaine, Weed Dealers, etc).

And ofcourse the laundry list of friends and accquaintances with fucked up, broken, or right-out abysmal 'relationships'.

So yeah. Except for very few, rare moments of imagining an Utopian white picket fence dreamworld where all is nice and sorted with perfect Wife/Perfect Kids/Perfect Dad nonsense, I never had the desire to be in a long term relationship with a Women, ever.

Like Tyler durden said in Fight Club; I'm a Son raised by a single Mother. Another Women probably isn't the answer to my plights.

Title	Which is your story? What made you become MGTOW (please include as much details as you want, I am genuine curious)?
Author	johnsmidth
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	June 20, 2018 2:42 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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