I wanted to make this post to share some experiences with guys who may be teetering between blue pill tendencies and fully swallowing the red pill and learning the truth about women.

When I got of school in 2013 it became harder to meet women. Like many other people I had to turn to online dating and I had more failures than success. Sure I had a few relationships come from the years, but looking back, I realize I was settling for fat chicks with baggage and I still hate myself for it. Before I fully swallowed the red pill I tried something with girls that I never used to do and that was asking them both flat out and in subtle ways, "What do you bring to the table?"

Now I'm not a chad. I'd say I have above average looks but definitely not chad. I take care of myself and am working to improve my body and career prospects. I read more books now at 26 than I did back then and spend time teaching myself new skills. Specifically learning to code. As I started getting fewer dates from being nice and thinking if you give girls the "intelligent conversation" they all claim to want, I soon caught on that it was a load of shit. I noticed many would claim to like to read, but many haven't picked up a book since college. They all had the same cookie cutter interests and self entitlement.

One night I had a chick message me. She was good looking but then I saw that she was a single mother. Barely anything in profile. I asked things like does she like to cook, does she read etc.. and everything was met with I don't have time. I decided to say fuck it and flat out asked that if I can do all those things why should I bother with a single mother who can barely make easy mac? What does she bring to the table?

Let me tell you the reaction was priceless. She tried to say things like she's fun and can be emotionally supportive and what not. I wasn't buying it and stopped talking to her. Now this was tame. Others just stopped talking or would insult me. A few times I did know acting like an ass like this increased their attraction because I was calling them on their shit, but remember boys, they already aren't worth it with so little brought to the table.

Now if you guys wanna give it a try there's two ways to do this. The first is the direct way like I did, however I suggest only saving this for the bottom of the barrel. Instead try to do things more subtly and see how she reacts. Here's an example. Went out with a girl who was cute but a little chubby not too bad. She hyped up how she was big into fitness and trying to lose weight. Being an asshole I had to see if she's full of shit because remember boys weightloss happens in the kitchen not the gym. So we go out and with girls I make it a point to order the opposite of what they get. Example: She gets a salad, I get a greasy burger. I do this to take note of her facial expression and reaction. If it's one of contempt and jealousy it usually means that she's not keeping up as best as she likes.

Anyways lads, point I'm trying to make is if you still choose to date, don't be afraid to ask women "What do you bring to the table?". It can be a lot of fun to watch their hamster go nuts. Those of you that have done that with girls you met in person or online share your experiences so others can learn.