I don't have any texting game whatsoever. The last time I got into a snapchat back and forth 3 years ago, it whiffed out like a silent fart. The girl back then was even the one who initiated it and I still never got them nudes. In fact, the only time I've gotten nudes was from one LTR.

Current girl is a goody two shoes who loves playing bad and making up for years of nerdiness. I'm fully comfortable being dominant in bed and telling her what to do. Yet I've struggled with how to bring up pics.

Last time we hung out I finally told her she should send me nudes from work whenever I ask for them, and she said she's into it!

Do you guys have tips on how to proceed? I have to maintain frame / control / have her tease and edge herself while dangling the carrot of fucking her after work.

In general I'm still pretty early on the whole journey. My lizard brain is still struggling to accept that she's not mine, it's just my turn. I can already tell that I'm more inclined towards exclusivity and an LTR with her than she is. I'm partly needing to do this to maintain a dominant perspective in my head.