I know there are no unicorns. but what if some woman came with a peace flag. Seriously wanted to do "whatever it takes." But you know it takes two and it takes compromise on both peoples parts. Would you even consider "changing" for the right peoson, in the right situation? To start with, to not be so angry? You have plenty to say about AWALT but what about allMGTOWS? Do you really want to be like them? Is hanging around here the best thing and what is your idea of "the next thing?"