So here is my story... Some background - 2 kids. Married 14 years. Run a business together. Had it’s ups and downs. About 2 -3 years ago, things started to change. Through the years wife had gotten disinterested in sex, so much so, it started to affect my confidence- I know that sounds weak, but I believed back then. So I had always kept in shape, but I wondered why it was “not tonight” most of the time.

I tried harder - worked out more, took up boxing again, cooked, more activities with the kids, more at work. Etc. improved - red a lot about the red pill - still not changing.

Then in October of last year I started noticing the Wife talking a lot with one of our clients - older guy not as jacked as me and the guy was odd - thought it was just for our work. Well it wasn’t.

I thought it was weird but she was home every night , we had the kids, how could Anyone bust up our family.

Then in early January- she tells me she wasn’t happy - she was separating - this was out of nowhere - she always said never would cheat, would not want the kids to have a step dad, etc. When she left, insisted there was no one else she wanted to work on herself. Two months ago / I find out that guy - well she admits they’re seeing each other now. This after denying it for at least 8 months.

I used to read this sub and agree. I’d also think that some people get divorced, just not me. That I was different.

Now I can’t even be in the same room with her. She has no honor, no loyalty. She is no good.

There are no good ones - it is just a matter of time.

I’m doing ok - but it is rough at times . I won’t lose my head because of the kids. But I will never get married again.