I’ll make this quick. Me (23) and this girl (21) I’ve been seeing/fucking have plans on Sunday, all day thing headed to city for the day. She text me yesterday saying she wants to take me out Saturday night, it’s a “surprise”, after some banter I say sure. Then in the same string of text she says her friend is having a Christmas party tonight, Friday, and tells me the doors open for me if I want to go. I had previous plans with a buddy to go out tonight and we still are but we could still slide through the party tonight.

Seeking some guidance here. Do I skip the party all together for the soul reason of TRP principles of not seeing a girl too often if I do go it would be 3 consecutive days of seeing her. However it would be fun to get free food and free drinks at the party plus bullshit banter and games AND for my buddy to potentially get some pussy.

Being she’s a female she wants to show off the new guy she’s been seeing, me.

I’m looking for guidance, suggestions, what would you do in my position? Let me know if any details are not clear.