Fellow MGTOWs, how do you override the urge to seek sex?

wawakaka · 2018-06-07T04:06:35+00:00

Strengthen frontal lobe to override lymbic system

In other words use logic to override emotions and desires

FordGourde · 2018-06-07T03:57:03+00:00

Just go fuck a chick. Use her for what she really is. If you're worried about getting #metoo'd use tinder or some other dating site, don't give her your number, and delete your profile afterwards.

Or just get a prostitute.

Tookthemethpill · 2018-06-07T04:21:49+00:00

If you are a virgin you might just want to pursue a girl and get the sex out of the way so you can put these thoughts to rest.

If you aren’t a virgin, just think of how that thirty minutes of getting to slide your dick back and forth in some self lubricating furry pit wasn’t really worth the effort.

Personally, what does it for me is knowing if I get her pregant my life is over. There are absolutely zero choices for me that are not illegal if she gets pregnant and wants to keep the baby. If I want to get a vasectomy i’ll still risk some incurable sexually transmitted disease. So the only choice I have is to be celibate.

NotEarth27 · 2018-06-07T04:42:18+00:00

Honestly, you're in high school. Get your fucking out of the way now, so you can focus more on important things when you get older. Most girls haven't had an insane number of sexual partners yet, so there's a lower risk for STDs. Wear a condom to avoid pregnancy, and make sure to flush it just in case they're crazy. Have sex a few times and you'll realize it ain't worth the effort. You'll at least be able to tell yourself that you know you can pull a girl if you really wanted to, but since you plan on being MGTOW you won't want to.

anongogogo · 2018-06-07T04:12:02+00:00

Fleshlight or pumpndump if you must

DWShimoda · 2018-06-07T05:54:56+00:00

Guys, besides jerking off, what other stratigies do you use to keep pussy off your mind.

You need to AVOID "idleness" -- the old saying "idle hands are the devil's workshop" -- and I would add that the same is true of an "idle mind."
So... you need to stay BUSY -- that is keep yourself OCCUPIED with other things that can be a HIGHER PRIORITY in your life -- better yet is when it can be "multipurpose" in helping provide some basis for your later (adult) life: skill development, experiences that help you choose a profession/career, build up contacts with people (esp adult men) who can help you with those (possibly even links to intern positions, "foot in the door" so to speak) etc.
Said BUSY-NESS -- hobby or sport or other interest -- should (ideally) involve:

A) MENTAL activity (something that requires intense problem solving efforts; ideally both things like reading/studying what has been done by others/in the past AND actively working on new ideas/solutions*), as well as...

B) PHYSICAL activity -- and here I mean both detail or micro level (what are usually called "fine motor" skills) hand-finger-eye work, as well as occasionally (at least some) larger macro level stuff, walking, running, carrying/lifting, etc.

C) SOCIAL aspects -- there should be some "group" or "club" aspect to it; doesn't necessarily need to be all that frequent (one or two gatherings every few months)... especially if the group has some additional virtual/correspondence socializing (i.e. online forums, bulletin boards, etc).
Best such activities... will, as I already alluded to: include at least some possibility of meeting & working with ADULT men. Ideally this will be outside of the "school" system and in some form where the adult men are actually ACTIVELY engaged in the activity themselves (i.e. not just some top down "coaching" bullshit) -- the chief benefit of this, is that you will gain "PEER" style socialization & possibly even (honest, not FAKED) encouragement & merit based recognition; particularly if the activity involves some kind of "competition" where (if you put in enough time & effort) you CAN "compete" (and at least potentially make a "good showing" if not occasionally "win") even against full adult men much older, more skilled & experienced than yourself.

There is really no way to describe HOW -- the MANY different ways -- that kind of social interaction can & very likely will benefit you... just know that there is HUGE potential for it. (Hint: Be especially respectful of SKILL & ABILITY, don't be overly "snarky" -- and among other things, you will be AMAZED at how many men will seriously ENJOY interacting with you, and even offering to help you: provide some of those resources you are lacking, teach you new techniques, loan or even GIFT you books, tools, etc.)
Lastly, relative to #4 above -- you will very likely get to see a much wider range of adult behaviors -- including the men interacting with and talking about women (whether wives, girlfriends, daughters, etc). This will likely be profoundly different than what you are used to observing with your high-school agemate/classmate peers. (And yes, you'll likely see the "full gamut"-- including guys who are henpecked, fully "cucked" to guys who are in control & their own men, and possibly even a few that are "MGTOW" {whether they know the acronym or not}.)

* And here is where you can turn what are usually seen as DISadvantages (i.e. being poor, having limited space, limited mobility, lack of advanced tools or equipment, lack of car, etc)... into an ADVANTAGE.

I know that sounds weird, but bear with me: many (probably MOST) innovations occur ONLY because of such artificial "constraints" -- instead of bemoaning a lack of "fancy" resources (folding hands and saying "I don't have [tool/resource], so I can't do [goal]; poor little me.") -- you need to CHANGE your perspective, and view any such limitation (in those "resources") as just another aspect of the "problem" or "puzzle" to be solved: "Ok, so I don't have [tool/resource]... how can I get [goal] done anyway? There HAS to be a way!"

IMO, one of the BIGGEST problems -- things that lead to the vast MAJORITY of modern people's depression/despondency (and thus "idleness"... leading to temptation, addictions, etc) -- is thinking that things HAVE to be (and thus only CAN be) accomplished if you have the latest/greatest tools & equipment (money & resources, etc). Because they think that... they don't even TRY to find another solution, instead they throw themselves a "pity party" (and/or get all angry & angsty about how "unfair" the world is, etc... which of course just further deepens their depression/despondency, and leads to a lot of "stupid is as stupid does" shit that fucks up the rest of their life in one way or a half dozen others).

blablable123456 · 2018-06-07T12:22:29+00:00

If you just want sex without nothing after, pay a hooker. Dont chase women, they are a huge time loss plus you can fuck yourself with their shit. With a hooker you pay her and do everything that you want but one last final thing. Dont kiss nor do oral on a hooker, you wouldnt want to taste others guys cum.

TheRedPi11a · 2018-06-07T14:28:32+00:00

I don't. I just have sex. Doesn't make me less MGTOW.

monkey_feces · 2018-06-07T16:11:43+00:00

set your terms and determine the cost. if you're willing to pay it, do it.

in an ideal world, what would be your interaction with women?

now, you're most likely not get that because many things are out of your control.

therefore how many compromises are you willing to tolerate before giving up on that woman?

finding that threshold will help you control whether an impulse is worth the long term costs.

nigelh · 2018-06-07T19:47:49+00:00

You have been conditioned since childhood by boy meets girl stories (often as a sub-text) that end with everybody 'living happily ever after'. You would naturally like to emulate that.
Now look at the real world. Who have you seen do that? Probably nobody. Relationships going south is the norm these days. Do you really want to emulate that?

2018-06-10T04:14:22+00:00

Sex tourism. Sex dolls

Title	Fellow MGTOWs, how do you override the urge to seek sex?
Author	itzme73
Upvotes	17
Comments	16
Date	June 7, 2018 3:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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