I met my ex-wife when she was still a law student. We got married soon after she graduated. A year later, I gave up a decent paying career as a used car salesman to move to a bigger city where she was offered a job with a higher pay.

Before we moved, we agreed that since she'll be earning much more than me and I left my job for her, she'll be the main provider of the family.

Things were going fine for the first few years. I went back to school and obtained my GED and then an Advanced Diploma in Accounting which was paid for by my ex wife.

Unfortunately, my ex wife's job requires her to work long hours and sometimes I don't even see her for days. I was feeling very lonely because of this and to make things worse, I was still unable to find a job a year after I graduated. My ex wife tried being supportive by saying it was fine and she'll provide for me. Yes, in financial terms i had a good life but I needed more. I needed intimacy.

In the height of my depression, a classmate from college started flirting with me. One things led to another an I ended up sleeping with her in my bedroom.

And here's where shit starts to happened. Turns out my classmate was a psycho. The initial hook up was a mistake. When I tried breaking thimgs off she'll force herself on me threatening to tell my wife.

It went on like this for a few months. Then my classmate started asking me to leave my ex wife and get into a relationship with her. I refused and ended things.

I thought it was the end of that but it turns out my classmate recorded one of our sexual encounters without my consent and sent it to my ex wife.

Because of the video, my ex wife kicked me out of the house, filed for a divorce and used her connections to get out of paying alimony.

I was left with nothing. I left my career for my ex wife and she kicked me to the curb. It was her fault I cheated in the first place. If she was able to give me more emotional support I wouldnt have been raped by my classmate.

I thought I would have more support from my ex wife after she found out I was raped, but she left me hanging high and dry. That was when I decided to be MGTOW.

Tldr... My ex wife left me after I was raped.