How are we suppose to feel about female relatives?

2018-05-31T01:39:41+00:00

All women are like that.

H0ESANDTRiCKS · 2018-05-31T01:10:11+00:00

AWALT

I realized at an early age that every female relative will see you as an "Orbiter" or a "Blue-Pill" provider.

I stopped talking to female family members as of mothers day. Keep you head down and plot you escape. Think of MGTOW as your underground railroad.

Good luck

H0ESANDTRiCKS · 2018-05-31T02:36:51+00:00

Narcissists don’t like being ignored. They will respond with violence and wall punching.

buff_minorcan · 2018-05-31T01:11:53+00:00

Case by case, and judge accordingly with as little bias as possible. My mom is about the best I could ask for. She married young and knew she wanted children and a home and that's exactly what she got. Still married to my dad.

Other good women in my family and examples of typical women we speak of here daily. Thankfully they've never been in a position to effect my life in a negative way and I just observed from a safe distance.

At the end of the day there are no militant feminists in the family at all so holidays have remained pleasant.

TonyMontana456 · 2018-05-31T01:18:49+00:00

You're supposed to feel however you want to. You're going your own way, you don't need anyone to tell you how to feel or validate how you feel about your family.

For your second question, I interact with my mom, sister, and other women in my family even if they're dramatic and sometimes a PITA. That's my personal decision. I'd rather support them since they're family than shun half my family away. YMMV.

2018-05-31T02:35:16+00:00

Treat as if dead; works for me.

cryptotim70726 · 2018-05-31T02:46:43+00:00

I haven't seen or spoken to my sister or her daughter in years. I set boundaries with my mom when I was younger. She knows that if she doesn't act right, I will let her die alone because my dad(now dead) divorced her in the 70s and my sister is useless. Both my grandmothers are dead. I generally don't deal with either side of my extended family. It gets easier to shed these people from your life as you age.

You decide your own level of involvement with them, but remain extremely cautious. Even they can ruin your life with just an accusation.

gods_bones · 2018-05-31T04:12:05+00:00

Almost every female relative I have is an evil conniving bitch, including my mother and my sister. I have a couple of aunts and cousins whose flaws are very very minimal though, mostly just limited to wishing life was easier.

2018-05-31T04:31:13+00:00

AWALT for sure. Nevertheless I love my female relatives very much.

2018-05-31T17:25:39+00:00

I think you ask an interesting question here, but you're going to get a variety of answers.

For me personally, I don't like my female family members; Everytime I'm around them, I end up getting caught in some situation I'd rather not be in.

That being said, I talk to my female cousins once or twice a month, and I talk to my mom about once a week just to check in on her. YMMV.

hirayama_ronin · 2018-06-01T01:53:33+00:00

Hold women to the same standards that you use to judge your relationships with men. That will get rid of 90% of women.

TerminallyOdd · 2018-06-01T05:02:57+00:00

It's hard to say, as every family scenario is different. Personally, I adore my mom and my sister. My feelings about not wanting romantic involvement with any modern woman doesn't affect how I feel about them.

Then again, I'm pushing 40 and my sister is older and my mom is close to 70 - as they say, they don't make them like they used to. They're old school and very appreciative of the sanctity and gender roles of a traditional marriage.

Kennen1Trick · 2018-05-31T02:06:23+00:00

They will try everything in their power to keep you under their thumb. Jordan Peterson talks about controlling people, how one of his students as an experiment tried to assume the motherly duties of his house after his mother had passed, the student started by cleaning his own environment and from the onset received pushback on a large scale, like “what, you think you’re better than us, we’ll show you”

https://youtu.be/PcyVNVmFQqI

Title	How are we suppose to feel about female relatives?
Author	H0ESANDTRiCKS
Upvotes	7
Comments	33
Date	May 31, 2018 12:57 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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