"Who hurt you?"

ConstantChinner · 2018-05-16T03:09:43+00:00

Shame and blame. All females and cucks are good for.

DangZagnut · 2018-05-16T03:17:39+00:00

Women don't give a shit, as we always say, they have no empathy.

So even if someone did hurt you, they just don't care, they are happy you're in pain if that was the case. It helps them feel that you being a sad little virgin, that therefore they remain supreme and privileged.

When someone asks who hurt you, the whole point is to attack that toxic manhood of yours, you know, the one where you're supposed to express emotions and all that bullshit they whine about.

So you express it, and they hate you for it, which is what we always say. Women have never, and will never, accept emotionally weak men.

But that's all based on that you were "hurt" and cannot rationally look at a burned out women and identify her as a bad irrational investment. Because then that might mean they have any responsibility, and we know women are incapable of accepting any responsibility ever.

chester444 · 2018-05-16T03:22:27+00:00

Further proof that men are not human and have no inherent value to women or society. Men are only worth anything to society if they are actually producing something of economic value. Women are praised for simply existing. Men, on the other hand, need to constantly prove themselves.

The whole “who hurt you” question is just another tool in the female arsenal to emasculate and mock men for having any feelings or emotional reactions at all.

Just more fake incredulity and posturing to try and continually cast themselves (women) as victims, no matter the cost, and garner more attention and validation from white knights and the rest of society.

Fucking sad and pathetic. The more time goes by, the clearer and more apparent it becomes........ there really is no other sensible option than just to sit back and watch the whole entire cesspool fucking burn.

BachelorInc · 2018-05-16T05:04:17+00:00

Why do people act like this disarms any argument?

Because women 'argue' based on feelz and not facts or logic. Just look at what she's doing in that circumstance - the determining factor which lead you to your conclusion is emotions/feeling based. Projection. Pure projection. That's how they determine right/wrong, and come to conclusions; not men.

Rational thinking need not apply.

They'll say this snarky shit, then toast one another w/a smirk.

It's like that stupid meme I've seen, even on LinkedIn, by females -

" Give a girl the right pair of shoes and she can CONQUER the WORLD ". <---has pic of high heels.

Just crap. Utter crap. They operate on the mental faculty level of a toddler, and then reward one another w/congratulatory cheers as they do so.

phreshstart · 2018-05-16T03:32:29+00:00

A real man doesn't get hurt, that's why if you get sick or have a serious work accident the woman will be gone looking for another "real man" before you can say I thought we were together for better and for worse.

silive · 2018-05-16T05:05:50+00:00

Never respond to that question. Ask them back along the lines "Why are you asking that? /Why are you so bitter?". Make it about them, not about you. Or better still, say nothing and walk away.

mgtau · 2018-05-16T04:39:12+00:00

Best response? "Your mom... her blowjobs are that bad."

SmigSays · 2018-05-16T08:37:03+00:00

I've been asked "who hurt you" on a couple of occasions.

I replied that I am not hurt. I am enlightened.

Nkazio · 2018-05-16T04:12:03+00:00

It's a moronic tactic. They're trying to underline that your dislike or 'hatred' by dismissing Women or an Idea is rooted in illogical emotions.

thisissocietysfault · 2018-05-16T06:42:26+00:00

Women are too stupid to think of anything original by themselves. These days, they get learn most of their vocabulary from Tumblr and Twitter.

WolfgangBreitweit · 2018-05-16T07:42:52+00:00

Why don’t you list the females that hurt you instead of taking the question as shaming? It’s a legitimate and reasonable question. We aren’t MGTOW by accident. So give the asking person what he deserves. The truth.

A man who gets hurt by females has at least three options:

1 ignore it and hope for a different result next time (mentality challenged people’s choice).

2 Change his stance on females and go for a different result (reasonable people’s choice).

3 Don’t go for females at all, because he knows the results won’t change. (MGTOWs choice).

Drakaris · 2018-05-16T08:51:44+00:00

I don't mind the question. That is if it was sincere concern.

Problem is it never is. The shame and ridicule are not even implied, they're painfully fucking obvious. When the cucks and cunts use this phrase it literally means "Pfff, what a manbaby, "man up" and get back into the meat grinder of relationships to serve another vagina, lol". It's really fascinating when the process of "manning up" only applies when it is implied that you have to serve women (by the low testosterone cucks) or when you have to serve society (by the tradcucks). They never say it in the sense "Man up and go your own way, take care of yourself, grow, develop, live your life the way you want", no sir, that's clearly "muh-soggy-knee".

And they also never actually analyze the "history" of the "hurting" - how many times, what happened, was it your fault or hers, do you need some time to recover, to rethink your life and the way you approach relationships not to get fucked again and again, did history repeat itself way too many times and you got fed up to the back teeth with constantly getting screwed over and over and over again... Nope, none of this matters. The only thing that matters is to shame you and send you back to the plantation because apparently you cannot be a "real man" if you don't serve a vagina... Go figure.

Ex_Swm_Lfw · 2018-05-16T05:44:52+00:00

Actually I lost count. It seems really all women are like that. I’ll go ahead and tack you on the list for that bullshit question.

16Gauge · 2018-05-16T05:29:46+00:00

Hooh hert yooh?

kayfab · 2018-05-16T09:35:14+00:00

Women are trash, they don't care like many of the bros say here, my last cunt girlfriend was selfish, we where together for 9 years, i took care of her, provided, found her dream job, and when the time came she dump me for a guy she had met there, we where an active couple, we did a lot of stuff together, she was very bad sex and had mental issues like head in the cloud and all, i still stay with her....

When she broke up she told me she never really loved me after all this time..... but what really did it for me is online dating, at 41 in 2013 i tough meeting a good women would be easy after all they got life experience and know what they want i found myself in a world of ugly below average single mom looking for perfection.......

Then i realize after all this time that women are boring and bring nothing to a relationship that when i was in a relationship i was always doing things i hated, family gatherings, meeting her friends i hated and watching stupid movies i could care less because she never watch things i liked etc....

After close to 20 years of dating i can say that all women are the same they manipulate on different level, they look for the best male to provide.

Life is so much better without a fucking cunt next to you to nag get old and look like shit

Revorob · 2018-05-16T08:28:55+00:00

People use this strategy to get you away from debating with logic and facts (which leftists of all varieties hate) to steer you towards a debate based on emotions (which lefties love and are completely invalid). When face with this tactics, the best defence is to hold your frame - as the Red Pill guys say.

Thulox · 2018-05-16T12:00:51+00:00

That translates to "I just lost the argument right now and don't have any points, so I'm trying to insult you"

Slaide · 2018-05-16T12:25:48+00:00

Ironic when a woman says that.

It's their way to use false empathy to tell us we're wrong because our "opinions" are clouded by emotions caused by our pretended bad experiences.

Well, if we're going by their logic, it means that all women who suffered rape or sexual harassment have invalid arguments.

emoprairiedog · 2018-05-16T13:08:34+00:00

This is a way to single you out, it's a way of gaslighting, this is why I believe that feminism is just collective sociopathy, they want you to blame yourself for what happened, that it only happens to you, that something is wrong with you that you inflicted the pain on yourself. Learn how to deal with sociopaths and you will learn how to deal with feminists. Stay on your frame and never let them to make you ashamed of what you are.

magx01 · 2018-05-16T07:57:50+00:00

Most people cannot imagine living contrary to their biologically driven sex instincts so since that's off the table they seek psychological answers.

2018-05-16T13:34:15+00:00

Why do people act like this disarms any argument?

Cognitive dissonance.

If they had my experiences - every friend's girlfriend, every girlfriend's sister, and every girlfriend's friends - trying to fuck me - even when they're in a relationship - they'd know, I didn't get hurt, I have just learned all women are utter trash.

I'm not even very chad, they just see or find out my cock is huge, and that's it. they're ALL size queens, and they'll ALL try to get that huge cock behind your back.

genethedog · 2018-05-16T17:37:07+00:00

Her: "Why won't you touch the element on the stove top" Him: "Cause it burned me. I know it's hot now and don't want to get burned again." Her: "You're bitter and angry because that stove hurt you, not all stoves are like that" Him: "...................................." <- (stunned silence)

OldTimeyENT · 2018-05-16T10:31:55+00:00

It's a trick question. Either way you answer, you will look weak. It's meant to throw you off.

SerialMansplainer · 2018-05-16T12:25:12+00:00

Because it IS meant to disarm the argument.

'Who hurt you' and 'You're mansplaining' are two segue ways devised entirely to derail any discussion based on logic and facts. The premise is to shift the focus from the logic of the argument to the speaker him/herself, in an attempt to get them to backtrack and 'open up' about their insecurities.

If this is a one-on-one discussion you're talking about, I would just up and walk away at this point because it's like fighting with a pig in the mud.

If it's a large group, I might still extend my logical argument because I have an opportunity to change the minds of those who are listening around me.

Dumaul · 2018-05-16T12:42:34+00:00

They are calling you weak, there is more that an year you don't see your kids while living on your car to pay the child support and alimony. Didn't matter, you are weak for feeling down on this situation and weak for not be able to keep your marriage.

TB409 · 2018-05-16T12:47:39+00:00

It's just a simple phrase to dismiss oneself from the argument.

You shouldn't be having mgtow arguments anyways. You don't need to defend your beliefs or lifestyle. The whole point of mgtow is for a man to live and enjoy his life for himself while he remands on this live action circus floating on a giant blue ball in the middle of fuck knows where.

MenGoingTOWin · 2018-05-16T14:21:39+00:00

"Who hurt you" is just a restatement of NAWALT.

They are basically asking "How can you be so foolish to believe AWALT?"

hollybegin · 2018-05-16T11:08:17+00:00

"Who hurt you?"

My answer: "Right now? You! You're breaking my balls!"

2018-05-16T12:40:43+00:00

It’s ironic because they tend to mix up MGTOW with Incels. Incels uses their insecurity to push what they believe. MGTOW accepts what they believe as fact, rather than base it off emotion. Incels are more like third wave feminists than MGTOW. They both want safe spaces and to suppress the other side. While MGTOW doesn’t give a fuck about the other side. We just don’t want the social ideas society doesn’t understand forced upon us.

peacejudah · 2018-05-16T14:00:19+00:00

Society and the way it works hurt me

badaboomxx · 2018-05-16T14:15:08+00:00

In my case it was part of my choice, but not the 100% of it (I mean after 2 times I tried to get married just to be cheated days before the wedding), but in reality if you choose this life because you are hurt rather than the experience of knowing that you can do whatever you want, it is what people thing of the mgtow, and don't understand that there are people who don't think that getting married is the way of life.

project_mayhem_ · 2018-05-16T14:27:50+00:00

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cunterrogation

Solstus22 · 2018-05-16T14:30:53+00:00

Ask them the type of man they wouldn't date and say "Who hurt you that you wouldn't date that type of man."

Thanos-hax · 2018-05-16T19:22:15+00:00

"I don't think you should touch that stove"

"Awww who hurt you??"

"Umm....the stove. That's how I learned that you shouldn't touch it..."

SJW issues are the only time you'll see people disregard extremely basic shit like survival instincts or pattern recognition.

WhistlingAlong · 2018-05-16T12:11:40+00:00

For me? Nobody really hurt me? Sure maybe I didn't pick the best role models as teen (rap music and stuff) but to my defense I did just migrate and had no idea what I was doing and going through culture shock (I might actually make a topic about it at some point here as it goes well with mgtow) but no women didn't hurt me. They gave me an honest turn for the lack of a better term and I just see their bullshit and just genuinely want to be left alone.

rubbifen · 2018-05-16T12:38:17+00:00

By hurt, they try to shame your RP knowledge.

34380 · 2018-05-16T14:39:20+00:00

Obviously, they're not asking the question. It's an implicit statement that someone hurt your and that's the one and only reason you hold some opinion. It's a passive aggressive response. Ignore them.

bloodycptvane · 2018-05-16T14:53:21+00:00

Who hurt you? who gives a shit. She doesn't, neither should you.

Your response should be: why does it matter, no one gives a shit and neither do I? And you drive on.

It is a shaming tactic to disarm you.

rationalthought314 · 2018-05-16T15:24:55+00:00

when women are hurt by a man it becomes their whole identity and personal crusade for life so it's rather hypocritical to blow off a man's pain with a "awww...who hurt you?" They are just trying to monopolize pain for themselves and stories of women treating men horribly steals from their attention.

double-happiness · 2018-05-16T15:56:14+00:00

https://youtu.be/guAQhHCuiUo?t=2m20s

Afab67 · 2018-05-16T20:13:58+00:00

"I would ask my inner child, but he won't stop screaming."

robowriter · 2018-05-17T00:39:38+00:00

Who hurt me? My dog Henry died a few years back. I blew a tube in my music amplifier. Er, an option I played on Apple didn't pan out. I ran out of hot bell peppers today sucks I had to use jalapeños. Now fuck off.

hirayama_ronin · 2018-05-17T01:42:39+00:00

"Who hurt you?" is a way of cutting off your nuts. The implication is, if you let anyone hurt you, you're not really a man, therefore not really worth talking to.

Women are allowed to amass enormous reserves of antagonism against men, mined from the most inconsequential sexual infractions, like a cat call or awkward pass. And nobody snarkily asks them, "Who hurt you?"

Ghustgan · 2018-05-17T11:56:14+00:00

It's just a shaming tactic with a sprinkle of gaslight thrown in for good measure. Thing is they find it effective (it is against some people) but if you wanna say something against it and keep it short, this springs to mind: "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice..."

I usually go on a fucking rant about how inherently stupid it is to not take precautions about a situation you've witnessed yourself (either by experience or by observation) to be a very real possibility and eliminate the risk of it happening again. Also known as "make the same mistake someone else made, or make the same mistake twice."

People will say you are generalizing, another shaming tactic since generalizations are bad, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. I just own it. My goal is to protect myself, not cater to anyone's virtue signaling bullshit.

They'll either lose their shit and start ranting random BS or give up on you completely and absolutely after you stand your ground like this.

rlh445 · 2018-05-17T12:53:58+00:00

haha literally just happened to me 2 days ago at work. 'ooohh somebody hurt rlh445,' she proudly exclaims with a smile playing on her lips.

I called her out on the smile 'and that's funny to you why?' 'it's not!' because women can't take agency. 'wipe it off your face then,' and she still couldn't. women are fucking worthless, i tell ya.

escalover · 2018-05-16T16:54:08+00:00

It’s dehumanization. “You’re only saying these things cuz you were hurt. You wouldn’t say them otherwise because they’re not true obviously.”

gloomyjelly · 2018-05-16T17:03:59+00:00

I've always seen it as a childish insult and not a real question. I assumed it started with that Family Guy episode where Peter is listening to Lionel Richie and says "who hurt you?" over and over.

adamrockblackandblue · 2018-05-16T08:49:19+00:00

Who hurt you?

Title	"Who hurt you?"
Author	ArtisticRestaurant0
Upvotes	248
Comments	67
Date	May 16, 2018 3:07 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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