What to do when ex contacts you

BoskOfPortKar · 2018-05-09T13:35:09+00:00

I ghosted every one of them. Even the only one whom I cared about.

boisdevie · 2018-05-09T13:59:31+00:00

Block them the moment you dump them - why keep in touch?

Shlikky · 2018-05-09T14:53:13+00:00

Ive ghosted all mine, had one I actually loved but ghosted her too so she would have no control over me. Logic > Emotions, every time

Marque01 · 2018-05-09T14:55:32+00:00

Respond with 'New phone. Who's this?'

When she responds give her crickets :)

The sweet sound of silence

civilizedfrog · 2018-05-09T14:34:54+00:00

One of my ex tried contacting after 4 months. She was the one who took my virginity. The reason she broke up was that she wanted to find herself aka eat pray love bs. She wanted to know how I was doing. I gave her some bs about how I am currently soul searching myself aka eat pray love bs back. If she contacts me again, I will say that there is too much love in me to give just one person.

cryptotim70726 · 2018-05-09T13:35:05+00:00

React 1 of 2 ways:

Ignore.
Only communicate with her through your lawyer. Document the communication with a cease and desist letter sent by your lawyer.

Slaide · 2018-05-09T14:42:13+00:00

Ignore. There is a reason she's an EX in the first place.

Batidadomaneco · 2018-05-09T13:50:41+00:00

Ignore/block, If you absolutly must contact because she owns you money or something like that, document all communication and get ready to lawyer up.

I would say the best approach is to completely block and ignore, usually the hassle is not worth.

mydude823 · 2018-05-09T13:34:55+00:00

I got contacted a few months ago. Responded with "Begone thot" and ignored her. She responded with that I was immature. Then she responded again with "i'm sorry". Then a week later she whined about my dick being small. In short, just ghost.

iWentMGTOW · 2018-05-09T13:51:21+00:00

If you want peace and tranquility, simply ignore or block

If you want to agitate them and see the devil yourself, respond with: "Begone Thot" or "(Insert random girl name)" please leave me alone.

Personally go with option one. I tried the second and a shit storm followed.

Afab67 · 2018-05-09T18:39:49+00:00

Yes. Absolutely and completely ghost them, unless you want to get back together again. But know this: past girlfriends are just trying to find out if they still have any hold over you.

casra888 · 2018-05-09T18:05:28+00:00

Ghost

SmigSays · 2018-05-09T21:28:40+00:00

No contact.

They're an ex for a reason.

JStheHammer · 2018-05-09T13:33:28+00:00

What does she want?

Kestral · 2018-05-09T14:53:46+00:00

This just happened to me last week.

She's still the ex but we smashed.

Profitglutton · 2018-05-09T16:59:09+00:00

Slept with her one last time and then proceeded to ignore her everywhere I saw her face as if she was invisible. She wasn't fond of the last part at all...

DanTheMGTOW · 2018-05-10T00:27:03+00:00

Ghost. Unfortunately, women use exes as pawns as they do their current lovers.

Mr_M0t0m0 · 2018-05-10T02:37:55+00:00

My ex was too chicken shit to do that. The dude she cheated with texted me, then called me. She didn' t have the intestinal fortitude nor the gumption to get on the telephone and speak. I texted him back and said not to contact me EVER again and that he should not get too comfortable with her because what she did to me with him, she will do to him with some other guy.

genethedog · 2018-05-10T03:08:01+00:00

Last mother's day, my ex from a couple years before (i was with for 10 years) contacted me saying she was coming back to Canada for a visit. (she went to the netherlands with her new guy from 20 years ago).

She said she really wanted to come and take Gene (our dog) for the day and to see the kids.

I said "Sure, wear something nice"

And she freaked like "fuck you, forget it" and I was like "duh".

Title	What to do when ex contacts you
Author	jdutches13
Upvotes	9
Comments	27
Date	May 9, 2018 1:28 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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