Ever since I learned to be emotionally detached to things in life, I feel so much more at peace and happier.

This mainly goes to people outside of my immediate family, as my family are very close.

I adopted the attitude that people will come and go out of your life and it's pointless to make someone stay in your life.

Anyone else adopted being emotionally detached and how did your life change?

The negative is, I am labeled emotionally unavailable by women. I learned that this is a shaming tactic by women, for me to open up and be emotionally vulnerable so they can use it against men.