have women ever tried reasoning with you for being mgtow?

BroCapn · 2017-08-22T02:00:58+00:00

I posted in another post on MGTOW yesterday about talking with a 24yo girl that sleeps around all willy nilly. She talks of marriage, and the Bible, and this and that.....

Being a friend to her, to gather information and understanding, I couldn't help myself but express my views. She did not like them. She countered them with many poorly thought out responses or silence. Mostly, silence. Infact, today she mentioned that our conversation made her rethink some thinks. No matter, though - I still see her in line for the CC.

mthrowaway52 · 2017-08-22T03:40:47+00:00

ask any women, hating on men going their own way, how much they have in their Roth/401k...

why is this relevant? because a majority of them plan to be supported by a man.

thats their plan to save for a future. make the man responsible.

same reason im not surrounded by frontiers-women, out here,
going their own way, living off-grid and doing for themselves.

2017-08-22T13:27:16+00:00

What do women want? Short term: slave-ownership. Long term: male genocide.

divorcedbp · 2017-08-22T04:14:50+00:00

I have a simple response for any woman who is in my age range and reasonably attractive when they pull this on me.

"You know what, you're right. Let's go on a date Friday night - you're cute, we should try it out."

Invariably, the answer is some combination of stammering or the classic "you're so sweet, but I'm busy."

This tells me all I need to know.

lostapwbm · 2017-08-22T05:25:30+00:00

have women ever tried reasoning

Huh? Women? Reasoning?

This eclipse has some of you thinking crazy thoughts.

gantz_au · 2017-08-22T09:12:03+00:00

Here's a bit of a different take on this question.

I'm a teacher, and pretty much every year I get asked the questions, "Are you married?/Do you have a girlfriend?

To which I answer with a "no" but recently I've been adding "I can't afford one" at the end.

So then they ask me, "why not?"

To which I explain to them that because I've stayed single and not bothered with women for a long time, I've been able to focus on my education, my career and my finances. I've been so successful at this that I have my own house, a car and have the time and money to enjoy doing all the things I love to do without having to answer to anyone. Ultimately, I don't want to be tied down because I value my freedom more than I value a relationship with a woman.

When they ask if I have any children, I tell them I don't and for good reason. I explain to them that if I did have children, their importance would be paramount to everything else in my life and that I strongly believe that, for MY children, they must have their father in their lives and their parents need to have a strong relationship with each other to support their children.

I tell them that I don't believe people in society are capable of this any more which is why I avoid women and why I don't want to have children.

And do you know what their reaction is to all of this? They understand completely.

Why?

Because they are born to single mothers, or have watched their parents divorce, or watched their uncles or cousins go through horrible divorces, or their parents are so shitty that they have to live with other guardians such as grand parents, or all of the above.

...

As for women my own age who ask me why I'm single. I keep things simple.

I say, "It's good being single."

And if they ask, "Don't you feel lonely?"

My response is, "Nope, life's good, I enjoy it a lot, I have everything going for me and I don't want to change things for anything."

The usual response from them is to change the subject but I do sometimes get asked whether I want children, to which I simply reply with a flat, "no."

I don't talk about my reasoning because who are they to demand an explanation for my lifestyle choices? I don't use any attacking language toward women or relationships because that'll give them an excuse to continue the conversation. I keep things short and simple and dismiss any other attempts they try to make on the subject. Eventually they realise that there's no point because they're not going to find any avenue of attack and change the subject.

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DonaldTrumpsWaifu · 2017-08-22T10:44:54+00:00

but anyways has any chick ever tried reasoning with you on your views?

The few that do respond don't. Some of them mock, some got defensive but most apparently pitied me and told me that it wasn't healthy, that they hoped I would find happiness, blah blah blah. None of them have tried reasoning because they are incapable of understanding where we come from in terms of our attitudes and opinions to dating and relationships.

For what it's worth OP, I don't think any of the women in your links were trying to reason with you. The first one is showing what I call "False Concern" and is basically asking you politely to remain on the plantation. Second and third ones are acting defensively, because you're implying that women are whores/gold diggers and they're not like other women.

2017-08-22T13:08:53+00:00

I still date, inevitably, the "what are we?" (why won't you commit to me) question will be asked, which is where I typically end things. This almost always causes the "I'm special/not like your ex-wife/you have so much to offer/why are you living in the past" melt down. I just ghost them after that. There's no point in trying to reason against the Blue Pill with them, It's like trying to tell a tiger not to eat meat.

Title	have women ever tried reasoning with you for being mgtow?
Author	Vergil387
Upvotes	12
Comments	16
Date	August 22, 2017 1:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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