I've done this a few times at bars and i found it to be interesting in so far as its been really successful.
After chatting up a girl and getting a rapport with her, maybe getting a drink together etc. I will excuse myself to go to the bathroom and telling her "stay here" and jokingly "don't move from this spot" and what i have found is that when i return, and i typically take my sweet time getting back (even going out for a smoke after), I find them standing in the exact same spot i left them usually looking around anxiously if I've been gone long. Ive even come back and saw that the girl had moved but was in the same general location looking around and jokingly said "i thought i told you not to move?"
I came across this accidentally but i find it does three things
- establishes me as a rule maker.
- establishes them as someone willing to follow orders.
- Breaks the interaction so that it doesn't get stale and so that our communication can "reboot" so to speak.
I am by no means a "lady killer" but i do decently well and found that this technique seems to speed up the process and probability of leaving together.
Im throwing this in as well because it relates to the "break before getting stale" mentality of this technique and because ive been the victim of this waaay to much (in fact i might be the poster child for this)
STOP TALKING YOUR WAY OUT OF PUSSY!
Jesus the amount of times ive felt the need to keep talking or keep a girl entertained that has resulted in either me talking my way out of ass or just hurting my chances is insane (im shocked ive ever gotten laid sometimes). Once you have built a rapport with a girl and you can feel her "vibing" on you less is more, less is much much more. She has mentally committed to sleeping with you now your goal should be not have that switch turned off not to make sure it stays on.
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