If you want to marry and have kids - how can your maximize the odds that you won't get divorced and financially raped?

ManIsWalking · 2017-08-09T04:59:11+00:00

Oh that's easy. just make a lot of money, be 10/10 in looks, be over 6' tall, and always make it seem like other women are always after you. Never get sick, don't lose your income, and never see your friends or family again.

Also, keep all assets in your name, never wife her up, get a surrogate for kids.

Do all of that and maybe she'll stick around...

2QuietDude · 2017-08-09T03:53:56+00:00

You are playing with fire.

What makes you believe the state needs to have anything to do with your personal life? Quit thinking within the boundaries of your default conditioning.

*There is nothing you can do. Every guy from billionaire to bum has been divorced. Pick a good girl? Might as well pick a name out of a hat. You might think you're special. You might think your relationship is special. This is reality. It fucking ain't special. You're a speck of dust on a rock that'll burn up in the sun.

mathens247 · 2017-08-09T03:31:25+00:00

A surrogate

Bestoftherest222 · 2017-08-09T04:04:49+00:00

Become Muslim and move to some Muslim state that gives women no rights. That is the only way to insure divorce rape wont happen.

secant128 · 2017-08-09T03:48:23+00:00

Move to a country that's less gynocentric, but it's never risk free, and it means you have to sacrifice your career and way of life from your original country and you might need to learn a new language.

But this is hypothetical as most countries on earth nowadays are gynocentric.

Deadpanpancakes · 2017-08-09T04:25:50+00:00

Assuming you've found a decent woman...

Briffaults law.

Always be useful in some way. Entertain her. Make sure you are good company. Be an AMAZING father. Be irreplaceable as a parent. Provide social value if possible

androphilistic · 2017-08-09T06:35:25+00:00

I don't know, can't answer that, but here's a guidebook on how to protect yourself and your assets after you have already married / had kids with her.

HOW TO FIRE YOUR WIFE.pdf

jupiter6666 · 2017-08-09T04:01:16+00:00

http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/how-avoid-divorce-according-science.html

Read these graphs, might give you an idea of what the perfect marriage looks like. You're giving too much faith to modern women though. They will get divorced simply because they can. Divorce has become normalized with less negative stigma, and once the stigma goes there's nothing stopping a woman from doing something to her benefit.

QuarkGluonSoup · 2017-08-09T06:14:37+00:00

There's little you can do to prevent a divorce, so you can only take steps to protect yourself. However, I've only ever heard of one strategy that prevents your assets from being taken from you; have them all in someone else's name.

Avoiding alimony is tougher, and requires considerable planning. Depends on the state, but you would have to be earning way less than your wife for an extended period of time.

Child support? Well if you have kids you should be paying for them regardless of the circumstances.

Ragmer · 2017-08-09T06:53:03+00:00

You can't. It's impossible. It's the law system that fucks us. Marriage to a lesser degree, but family law far and above that. So unless you're picking an unstable, alcoholic, drugged out nutter in hopes that you can pry your chemically messed up kids out of her grasp, I'd skip the whole damn ordeal.

Aside from that, you can't do a damn thing. No fault divorce can be issued at any moment by either party, and most western countries don't fully honour pre-nups unless they "feel" they are equal. So those ain't gonna save your ass.

And not to make fun of you, or shit on you, but you're more or less asking if we know how to make it hurt less when you stick your head in a bear trap. Answer will always be, don't stick your head in a bear trap.

fasterfind · 2017-08-09T07:34:05+00:00

Ask a lawyer to draft the ultimate prenup. Don't get legally married.

2017-08-09T08:35:22+00:00

move to another country with better laws. in my country man after divorce keeps what he owned before marriage. on the other hand, if husband dies, wife can inherit his entire property, so I heard of cases that wives gave poison to their husbands or triggered their premature death in some other way.

Woshi-Wumao · 2017-08-09T10:49:57+00:00

One easy step and two easy non-steps:

Marry a girl from another country.
Don't move your assets into that country.
Don't grant her citizenship in your country.

After you split, as an alien, she'll have little to no legal recourse.

This keeps white knight daddy government out of your relationship. This keeps her dependent on your good graces, rather than the courts (who you've deprived of jurisdiction). This keeps you in a no-fault position of power.

On the flipside, she can still disappear with your kids if things go south... but that's equally true in traditional marriages, where the laws and police and family courts who'll preside are 90% biased in the female's favor.

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