She texted me just to tell me she's got a new boyfriend, and I admit, its bothering me. Fucking emotions man.

801735 · 2017-08-08T21:51:42+00:00

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brownbag18 · 2017-08-08T21:57:51+00:00

FWB is like playing with fire. The addict, trying cocaine will get hooked eventually.

Besides, her getting a BF, is super easy. The catalog is full to choose from...

burden_of_poof · 2017-08-08T22:06:35+00:00

We went about a month without speaking until today, when she texted me out of the blue. A whole lot of fluffy bullshit that ended with "I've got a real boyfriend now, and he does everything you should've"

If she bothered to tell you all that it probably means she'd prefer to be with you.

That said, move on with your life and let her move on with hers.

2017-08-09T00:35:13+00:00

this is actually a big win for you, dont look at it as a loss. she still wants you, but your the guy she could never tame. this is just another ploy of hers to try and make you compete or win her back. and if u wont play that game then she'll just pretend shes "so much happier" because she resents the fact u would never fully commit to her. but deep down she will always wonder "what if" with you.

jerseymayan · 2017-08-08T21:51:58+00:00

Hit the gym 20x as hard if you have to. Whatever you do, do not text or call her back. Just ignore her and move on.

Remember by ignoring her, it make her hormones go crazy and she'll go nuts. Don't play her game.

sfactor360 · 2017-08-09T00:50:57+00:00

She claims to have a new boyfriend. One of the reasons you're upset is probably because you think she's found happiness. Chances are she hasn't. Chances are, they'll be done in less than a year. If she's the messed up and crazy type, then this will definitely the case. Also, just because a girl calls a guy her boyfriend, doesn't mean he actually is.

2017-08-09T00:31:28+00:00

your absolute best course of action is to totally block her and delete her in all social media and phones, and totally ignore her. do not message her to say "never talk to me again". do not send any closure type messages. nothing. go 100% ghost with no explanation. she WILL find a way to contact you again in the future. at that time u can decide how u want to play it. full ignore is always the ebst course of action, and assures victory.

MattFoley79 · 2017-08-09T02:17:44+00:00

She still wants to fuck you. She's just trying to get you to chase her. Don't chase her. Wish her the best and move on with your life.

mgtowguynow · 2017-08-08T23:24:48+00:00

Mark my words DThrillard: by next week, you'll be laughing at the fact that you even made this post.

We all have our days.

JagsDontCare · 2017-08-09T00:51:06+00:00

It's only affecting you because you don't have any pussy as good or better. If you did, you wouldn't give a shit which is more a matter of ego. Understand this relationship between your ego/self worth and correct the root problem. Otherwise, you'll be okay with time because the larger the time lapse in interaction with her; the easier the withdrawal. Don't let your brain chemistry affect your well being.

I would have told her that there were three girls in your life that love to fuck and never ask for a relationship because the dick is too good. It's all about leverage.

JayJayEcks · 2017-08-08T21:54:12+00:00

Meh.

If you are somewhat Chad (or Tyrone) -like and got your vasectomy, a handful of rubbers then you sir can get a little short-sighted, self-serving revenge by getting into the knickers of her: sister, mom, aunt, grandma, cousin, bf, bff, or sorority sister.

Or hire an escort service that allows you to look at faces and take one to pound town that resembles her.

If not, move on, man.

Then you can sound your barbaric yawp over the interwebz after you bust one.

Happy hunting.

Scipio_Amer1canus · 2017-08-09T02:46:59+00:00

Most of us know your pain, brother. I would've responded, "Sounds great, and good luck! When it doesn't work out, come back and I'll smash that ass if I'm free."

It allows you to both take the high road and demean her at the same time - that way in your eyes she knows she's nothing more than meat.

2QuietDude · 2017-08-09T03:20:56+00:00

Just don't respond. It's literally that simple. The only drama is what you manufacture in your head.

andreas-mgtow · 2017-08-09T00:06:50+00:00

wimminz must have the last word. Take that away from her.

Text her something along the lines of "I'm fed up with your neediness. It's over, go back to your imaginary boyfriend. Blocking you now." Then go full ghost.

kp76 · 2017-08-09T01:22:03+00:00

Get a nice sack of 420 and go to town on some Halo bro.

Go find a hooker, get laid, will help you move on A LOT faster.

sir_wankalot_here · 2017-08-08T23:01:49+00:00

She is trying to play dread game with you. Good that she now has a BF, he can pay off the cow while you enjoy the milk. Drop a little cuckling inside her so the BF can man up and raise that little cuckling as his own.

Hopefully you are black and the BF is white, that way it will be obvious the little mudbaby cuckling isn't the BFs. The BF then can say he trusts the GF 100%, a DNA test isn't nessary. If you feel like having more fun, have the GF invite you to the wedding.

It all good.

Edit - hopefully you live in a state like California, where if the BF pays support for the mudbaby cuckling for two plus years, he is liable for life.

Shimakaze4 · 2017-08-09T01:37:13+00:00

I'd fuck with her and text her back and say "yeh, me too (new boyfriend) and he's much better than you at everything".

eltonl · 2017-08-09T03:51:22+00:00

Ghost. Go your own way

TB409 · 2017-08-09T04:00:14+00:00

You didn't lose anything but potential financial issues

johntheother · 2017-08-09T04:28:26+00:00

You should be thrilled that she has a new BF. Far less chance of her stalking you.

fasterfind · 2017-08-09T06:52:34+00:00

Sounds like you made your decision. You can't be FWB forever. She was clear about her wants, and hopefully you were just as clear.

New boyfriend means it's over and you're free to never see her again. You agreed to that outcome a long time ago. Time to find a new one.

2017-08-09T07:14:36+00:00

You'll hear from her in 6 months, out of the blue as well.

You're like a kid crying that the ride at the amusement park is over. If it means that much to you, go get back in line and waste another 2 hours of your life for 2 minutes of excitement.

Im so glad I don't associate with females anymore. Holy shit. You literally start to become one.

Praecipuus · 2017-08-09T09:55:55+00:00

Your response to her: "Cool"

As to the way you feel, you need to fill out that void with something: mediation, work, traveling or, you know, pussy. Lots of it.

2017-08-09T12:29:09+00:00

Dude, it's a compliment.

She wants you to know because she still cares and wants to rise an emotion out of you.

You are feeling bad because it's essentially the hangover phase of the feel-good chemicals you get from a relationship
She still cares about what you think. That's a compliment. If you were a woman, you would be appreciating this as validation.

Recognize that this is just a phase and you'll get over it. No questioning "is this forever?". It's essentially a hangover. Some people get over it by going sober for a while, while others double down and need another relationship hit immediately. You guess which is healthier. Guess which the emotionally/mentally unstable choose.

2017-08-09T12:59:32+00:00

If you didn't feel anguish after a relationship then you didn't have a real love. Knowing the logical, rational view of your situation is good but it's not the whole task. It will take time for your emotions to align. You'll get there, and you'll look back on the fog you're in now with amazement and you'll have the wisdom of experience

2017-08-09T16:51:00+00:00

You gotta see it from this perspective. She went out of her way to contact you and let her know about this new relationship. Meaning, she still thinks about you.

A person who has his/her life under control, why would that individual go out of their way to contact someone from the past to let them know how they're doing?

She's a broken record. This girl did you a solid. Look at her actions. Not a girl i would like to spend my time with.

Hit the gym. Get some PR's, go out with friends, have a good time. Life your live to the fullest!

aanarchist · 2017-08-09T16:57:21+00:00

think about it from a logical perspective, the shit she said to get under your skin was some spiteful and hateful shit. she's going to treat her boyfriend with the same sort of spite the moment she makes the decision that she can do better, which is the moment he shows any sort of humanity or imperfection. it hurts yes, but at the end of the day you know that you dodged a bullet and that's why you never wanted to commit to her in the first place. she's an amoral whore, and any negative emotions you have is your body telling you that you did wrong by wasting your time on her in the first place. whenever i have negative emotions over women it's me realizing i made a mistake investing feelings into someone who from all logical angles was a bad deal, and it was me being hard on myself for being a dummy and taking the plunge anyway.

2017-08-09T18:03:10+00:00

Your fuck toy found a beta buck ? Why should you feel bad ? Or you wanted the whole ltr deeply screwed experience ?

Dank_Meems · 2017-08-09T18:07:23+00:00

Why do you think she texted you.... I've started being a rock when women want me to show emotion and it's fucking hilarious how they react.

rlh445 · 2017-08-09T19:04:22+00:00

Being MGTOW doesn't mean you have to be a fucking robot. You care and that's human. Accept that and then you'll have an easier time using your logic and reasoning to see that she doesn't really matter at all. Took me quite some time to work through my own issues with this. Never hand another person your self worth.

Bonesteel50 · 2017-08-09T21:11:46+00:00

Look on the bright side, she wouldn't have even talked to you if she still didn't want you. You are the one who rejected a relationship with her, this is her last "Look whatcho missin"

davielondon · 2017-08-10T02:57:38+00:00

Lmao bro the fact she's texting with you means she's already unconsciously told herself she'll cheat on him with you. Give it time and you'll be the first one she hits up when they have an argument

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2017-08-09T00:36:52+00:00

Hire a good looking prostitute and congratulate her and send her a pic of you enjoying your new "gf"

ManIsWalking · 2017-08-09T02:24:36+00:00

He maybe a "real boyfriend that does everything you should have.".... But she's still going to cheat on him. No big loss dude, pussy is completely replaceable.

TyrannicalWill · 2017-08-09T03:21:51+00:00

Generally relationships start really well with the man breadcrumbing, promising all of these great things to the woman, only to pump and dump. Don't worry, he's probably going to pump and dump her and she will be crying and running back to you.

2017-08-09T04:02:18+00:00

I think it's a good idea to make a list of all the shitty traits your ex has right after the break up and all the reason it would have never worked while they are fresh in your head. Then when you feel the urge to reach out to them, jerk off to get over the desire to fuck and refer to the list to get over the desire to be serious with them.

aaronimpact · 2017-08-09T05:59:32+00:00

She's trying to get a reaction from you by telling you this.

She texted me just to tell me she's got a new boyfriend, and I admit, its bothering me. Fucking emotions man.

FUCK

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Title	She texted me just to tell me she's got a new boyfriend, and I admit, its bothering me. Fucking emotions man.
Author	DThrillard
Upvotes	32
Comments	54
Date	August 8, 2017 9:49 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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